Startled, I yelled at her. I was like ”What are you doing, get out!”, she hurried out of the bathroom and I thought – what the hell was that? I told her I’m going to take a shower, she knew I would be there. Even if she forgot what I said, you can hear the water running when entering the bathroom and you should be thinking – oh ok, somebody’s in the shower. The shower glass is non-see through but you can still make out a silhouette of a person through it. So my guess is – she did it purposely. I guess because of the running water I didn’t hear the door open and didn’t see someone coming in because I wasn’t paying attention. I had absolutely no thoughts that someone could walk in on me as my wife wasn’t there and MIL was watching TV. Suddenly the shower door swings open and MIL’s just standing there. She made a surprised face and was like ”Oh (pause) sorry (pause)” while eyeing me up and down for at least 5 seconds. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here or post it in the Slate Parenting Facebook group .

Now, as far as “repressing” your feelings, it seems to me like you might feel some sense of guilt or shame about your attraction. I encourage you to try to release that by reminding yourself sexual attraction is a natural process and you aren’t actually acting on anything here. I gave my toddler my cellphone to play a game while I took a shower. It was a preschool learning game that she plays often,” said the woman, who posts on the video-sharing app with the handle @bri.anna89.

Zoe wrote: "@ofcom please ensure @ITV have trigger warnings when I’m witnessing Nigel in the shower thank you. I will be invoicing my therapy bill #ImACeleb."

Read more: ITV I'm A Celebrity's Josie Gibson hailed as 'guardian angel' by Made in Chelsea star she helped As the politician used some logs in camp to workout with, Nella said: "Nigel, are you feeling the burn? Do you ever look at people working out and think, ‘What are you training for?’" Then my wife returned and when MIL was gone, I told her what happened. My wife smiled about it and said it was most likely just a misunderstanding and MIL definitely didn’t do it intentionally. Well, maybe she didn’t but from my point of view, it looked like she did. For what reason – I don’t know but it truly didn’t seem like it was accidental. I hate the fact that I know what Nigel’s bum looks like now," Toni said. "I wanna throw up. I’m gonna vote him out." Did you choose to find your friend’s dad attractive or see him getting out of the shower right when he did? No. Just as you didn’t choose to be gay and have the feelings you have.The mum-of-one added: "No, I haven’t. I haven’t. Fair play to him. He’s not shy, he just gets on in there. At least he’s clean." I’m a woman in her early 20s renting a home next door to a family with three elementary- and middle school–aged boys. I’m in an architecturally quirky older home, and there’s a window in my shower. It’s behind a tree and has a frosted lower pane, so you really can’t see in from ground level. The other day, I was having a Zen moment in the shower, and looked up to the neighbor’s child staring at me from a second-story window. I have no idea how long he was watching me or if it happens regularly. I’m working on getting an appropriate cover for the window (and will be showering at the gym for a while, to be honest). But how should I approach the parents about this? I’ve literally never talked to these people before. I understand kids are curious, and I’m not angry with the child, but I do think the household adults should probably know. Also – what’s so interesting about me that you’re taking so long to leave, MIL? Have you never seen a naked man before or what? She was literally standing there staring at me for inappropriately long time.