The minimum amount of lockup that gives relationship and behavioral changes is where you want to be. With enforced chastity the keyholder may be tempted to find you an extra restrictive device because as we know the penis can be a tricky thing to keep completely constrained and with enough effort it's possible to wrangle out of most. The time that you share together as a couple is extremely limited and he wants to spend it locking his wiener up in some sort of cage? We also love to hear your feedback and suggestions, so please do leave a comment at the end of the story you read and let us know what you thought of it.

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I do have some degree of expertise now that I’ve implemented chastity enforcement with my own partner and helped to varying degrees of involvement with other couple’s relationships in that perspective. Most women keyholders come to take great pleasure from denial, and the sexual power it gives them over their men. I was keen to ensure that it wasn’t going to hurt him and was constantly asking if it was too tight or rubbing at all.Unless you really are dealing with a micro penis don’t go crazy for the first try but in no way do you need to worry about a device where the shaft is an inch or more too short.

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If you are new to enforced chastity, chances are very good that you are wondering how to use your lockup to best advantage. Phase One started for me they day I decided there was no more testing or getting used to the device was necessary. There is a good reason for this: Any other form of stimulation is very difficult to control and will likely result in an unplanned “accident” for him. It may seem cruel, but a key component of enforced chastity is to keep your caged male in a continuous state of heat.

Unlike erections and orgasms associated with erections, these are not under any direct cause-effect relationship. A hairbrush or paddle is used to provide a very painful lesson each time he comes without permission.