What about when you’re not in a hurry? What about when you’re in bed together with no place to go, and you want to have the best blowjob ever? In mainstream pornography, nearly every blowjob has the person receiving while standing up and the blowjob giver kneeling. But the only real limit to what a blowjob can look like is your imagination (and what your bodies can pull off). According to O’Reilly, a 69-style position where your partner plants their butt in your face (for you to play with or simply to be dominated by) can be great for more submissive guys.

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Of course, if you don’t have a bed to play with, or your partner finds it sexier to go down on you while you’re standing, there’s also a way to make it more submissive-friendly. Here, the traditional kneeling/standing blowjob is probably a good fit, especially since most guys can undo their fly and/or pull their pants down for relatively easy access without needing to disrobe in any real way. Sometimes, the best blowjobs take place in public (or semi-public) situations. Whether you’re in a car, a forest, a bathroom or somewhere similar, those kinds of blowjobs will naturally require slightly different positions. The truth is, a blowjob can be whatever you want it to be — assuming your partner is willing to go there as well, that is. If you like being in control, there are ways to make receiving a blowjob feel more dynamic; if you prefer your partner to be the one in control, there are ways to make a blow job feel more like you’re being dominated. The same applies if you’re the one giving a blowjob, too.With that in mind, it’s worth trying different blowjob positions out, especially considering changing the position can radically change how the blowjob feels for both giver and receiver. Anything involving bondage leaves you vulnerable to the power and control of your partner,” she says. “So if you want to feel submissive, let yourself be tied up and unable to move.”

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If you know about blowjobs from watching porn, you might have a relatively limited understanding of how many different positions blowjobs can come in. To help you pinpoint that maximum pleasure potential, we spoke with three different sex experts to bring you a guide to the best blowjob positions. No matter what type of blowjob you and your partner want to engage in (or how much time and space you have to play with), there’s something for everyone. If you ask most guys what their favorite non-intercourse sex act is, a good chunk of them will tell you it’s getting a blowjob.