Especially for first-time parents, there really is a little nervousness mixed in with the excitement. The more support and enthusiasm you can send their way, the better. But there is also that fear of being a parent that some people experience. This time is not an easy time and should not be taken lightly. However, that doesn’t mean you need to stress out about becoming a parent. Surely you will do an amazing job and there are so many tools at your disposal. Because gifts are such a big part of baby showers, it makes perfect sense that your personal message might refer to your gift in some way.

Just wanted to send a little gift and lots of love for your baby shower. Wish I were there with you.” Every child born into the world is a new thought of God, an ever-fresh and radiant possibility.’ — Kate Douglas Wiggin
So happy for you,” For a daughter/girl) Congrats on your daughter! Watching her become a girl and then a woman is sure to be a wonderful journey of happiness and discovery. She could not ask for better guides than her amazingly loving family.

Creating Greeting Card Messages for New Parents

A warm closing before your signature is like the bow on top of your message. Choose one of ours, or come up with one of your own. If your gift happens to be a family heirloom, or if it’s handmade with love, it’s great to mention that in your card, too. For an older sister) Congratulations on becoming an older sister! Being the oldest is a big responsibility that takes hard work, dedication, and lots of love. It’s a good thing your parents had you first, because I can’t think of anyone who could do a better job than you! If you’d rather not call out the fact that you’re not there, then don’t even mention it. A simple warm wish will do just fine. If Daenerys Targaryen can raise three fire-breathing dragons, then you can totally handle human triplets. So thrilled for you all!”

People can use inspiration for many different things in life and inspirational quotes for parents to be are among the most important when you are expecting. Congratulations on finding out that you’re going to be a parent. There are so many things to look forward to and learn with kids in your life. Welcome to the world little guy! There is so much waiting for you to discover and explore and a whole bunch of people that love you very much. I’m so happy to know you and am looking forward to getting to know you better and better over the years.

For Other Members of the Family

Most of the message ideas so far assume that the shower is happening before baby arrives. But when he or she is already here, it opens up even more possibilities for what you might write…

For a son/boy) Congratulations on your new son! As he makes the journey from boy to man, I hope that you are able to enjoy every second of happiness and adventure that he will provide. Some couples love anticipating their little prince or princess while for others part of the joy of giving birth is the surprise of learning if they had a daughter or a son. Gender specific messages can be a fun way to celebrate along with them. So excited to be at your shower—and to get in a little baby holding while I’m at it. Your little guy is adorable!” Humorous/Funny) Congrats on your new baby girl! Hopefully they didn’t overdo it with the sugar or the spice… Single dad) Congratulations on your new child! Anyone can be a parent, but it takes someone special to be someone’s dad. You are sure to make a wonderful father with lots of love and life to give. Best wishes on your new journey!They say it takes a village. As you look at all the smiling faces surrounding you today, I hope you know that’s us. We are your village, and we’ll always be here for you as you raise this precious child.” For adoption, remember to steer clear of references to giving birth, or to baby inheriting mom’s eyes or dad’s long legs. If the couple is adopting a toddler or older child, consider bypassing the baby shower cards and going for a general congratulations or a beautiful blank card you know they would love. Best wishes for you and your new grandchild. I am sure that you will spoil them with love and attention, and it shouldn’t be any other way.