Belts vary incredibly. The typical, single layer, dryish leather, dress belt is not much of an implement, it is too light and bouncy and also may land unwanted edge hits. But so long as it doesn't have the undesirable tendency to want to twist and produce those edge hits, it might be good to learn with and maybe appropriate for applying a fast-paced spanking that won't overwhelm too much. Her implement of choice was an old heavy leather belt of my dad’s, which seemed especially well adapted for this purpose. When Mum decided one of us was to be punished, the command was delivered in a calm matter-of-fact manner: “Go up to your room and pull your pants down.” It was as if she was asking us to get ready for a bath or for bed. There was no need for raised voices or anger – all the fearsome gravity was encapsulated within those words. Mum tells me that I always took my punishments rather stoically and didn’t make much noise, but I think on that occasion I must have come damned close to letting out at least a little yelp. Once it was over and I was released, I lay on the bed, eyes moist, to nurse my tanned, smarting behind. I looked up at Mum just as she left my room to replace the strap until next time – and I remember that satisfied stern look on her face that said ‘let that be a lesson to you!’ To his credit, he is open to accepting real spankings. I’m not sure how many men would actually continue to accept that after getting a REAL spanking with a severe implement. He’ll be the first to tell you that real spankings are no fun. While the majority of people look at functionality and fashion of belts, There are quite a few of us that have a fuller understanding of what they are capable of in the disciplinary sense. It may be a foreign concept to the younger generation but when I was a kid, getting threatened OR actually GETTING the belt was a real possibility in many homes. I didn’t get the belt growing up but my Mom DID have a paddle that she used on us. On occasion, we’d get threatened with the belt and for whatever reason, we thought that was the worst of the worst.

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I grew up in Pennsylvania in a pretty conservative religious area. My parents were, and still are, extremely fundamentalist and religious. Spanking was always part of my upbringing, but it was not extreme for most of my life. For example, I was spanked by my parents maybe 15 times before age 15, maybe even less. Most of those were with their hand on my bare butt, long enough to leave some marks for a few hours. A couple of them were with a paddle and twice they were with a belt, also on the bare butt. Those left some marks that lasted longer, but still it was a rare, although severe when it happened, occurrence.So why this belt doesn’t have its own blog post is beyond me, but as they say…better late than never. As you can imagine, the highest amount of energy is at the end of the belt where it is doubled over. Which also happens to be where the most weight is. So…energy and weight = painful swat. All that said you do deserve to heal your heart. It sounds like there are still welts there. Can you find a therapist who specializes in trauma or PTSD? It might help you find peace. Be kind to yourself. Give yourself the grace to heal. This article needs additional citations for verification. Please help improve this article by adding citations to reliable sources. Unsourced material may be challenged and removed.

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Hats off to Joey then 🙂 i quite seriously think that this was a great piece of work. It is short but informative, and very reflective of who You are and how confident You are in Your position in Y/your FLR.

Once I was pinned down and getting a good leathering, I just wanted to climb away from those ferocious strokes. They just seemed to keep on coming, rhythmically and relentlessly. I didn’t have the headspace to count them and there was no escape, so firmly held in position as I was. As I mentioned above, when I spank my husband, I ALWAYS double the belt over. This increases the weight of the strap and is going to provide a much more harsh and effective spanking. And it’ll be a longer lasting lesson afterwards as well. Swing in control, but swing HARD ladies. You must understand and control the "snap the whip" effect of any flexible implement. The end of the belt - whether used as a single-layer strap or doubled up like the archetypical spanking belt - can be very abusive. It is good to try to get a flat landing of the belt on the bottom rather than a hit that wraps around thus accelerating the tip. Also, the longer the belt extends from your hand, the more problematic this effect may be.