Ping! Suddenly there was a message on the screen from an ID called sweet_couple. “Hi! ASL please?” Shweta looked at me, confused. “What do they want? What’s ASL?” I shrugged. Seemed like some code word among swingers. “What’s ASL?” typed Shweta. “Age Sex Location” pat came the reply. Now we were more confused. Whose Age and Sex should we type? Mine, or hers? Shweta replied “We are a couple. U?”“We too. M34 F32 Mumbai.” We understood and replied, “M30 F27 Mumbai.”“Great! What do you do?” sweet_couple responded. Every couple tells us that if either of them decided that actually, this isn’t for them, they’d stop immediately – no more trips to hedo, no more swinging.

Written with so much sensitivity … The adrenaline rush when you see your partner entering into the room with another partner … It’s like building a house – you need a strong foundation to begin with’ says John, on his second annual getaway to Hedo, ‘I didn’t think it was possible to love my wife any more, but here I am’.

We spend our last night as honorary Playful Pussycats, or ‘future Pussycats’, with five older couples. Hello SteveW - Wow! Talk about unintended consequences! What did you expect? How are the both of you handling the situation? Do you have children? I wish you all the best. Let us know how you are doing? Next morning, at the airport, there was different chemistry between the four of us when we hugged each other. Swati was wearing a colourful crop top and a skirt. I couldn’t help stealing a glance at her model-perfect body. Normally I compliment her whenever we meet. But today, I was tongue-tied. “She looked hot,” remarked Shweta, as we entered our room at the resort. I knew who she was referring to. “So, are you ready to go ahead if something happens?” I asked nonchalantly. “Dunno. Are YOU?” she parried. Neither of us answered, but we both knew this trip was different.

I think that people who do do it, they apparently have "rules" in place for it. But happens if one spouses starts to actually fall in love with someone else. There is always a risk that that might happen.In addition to hosting swinger parties and travel groups, Carol and David are working on a passion project as executive producers and writers of the screen play, SEX LOVE AND JEALOUSY, a sexy romantic comedy based on their real-life swinger experiences. According to Daniel Stern, author of Swingland and a 10-year swinging veteran himself, there are an estimated 15 million swingers around the globe, and you’d be hard-pressed to figure out which of your family members or neighbors are secretly swinging at first glance. “They are teachers and police officers and lawyers and business people; it’s every walk of life,” Stern says. “I posit that everyone is one degree away from a swinger; they just don’t know it.” Here is the thing my friend. No matter how much she may have seemed to, or even actually enjoyed the experience, you lied to the person you love the most to get something that you wanted. What you did was genuinely dispicable.