One big reason, of course, is young women were already well acquainted with the customary disciplinary drill of the day. Even tho this has been a deep dark secret fantasy for me for a long time my husband and I both are new to this and learning and I would just really appreciate any guidance or advice. If you are head of the household, take initiative in making things right in the house, the home, and the marriage.

For the most part, while there were abuses, an officially permissive attitude towards spanking promoted social stability.Once reason was that the connection between spanking and misbehavior was more well established than it is these days. Most certainly, large numbers of people are consistently following the drumbeat of advice offered by experts.

While it many people still approve of longevity in marriage as in ideal, they are unwilling to acknowledge there are simply those times when a husband needs to pull his wife’s pants down, put her over is lap, spank her until she is thoroughly submissive, and then make her stand embarrassingly bare bottomed in a corner afterwards! I tend to think people dislike me and my boyfriend is disinterested or neglecting me during this time.One thing for the husband, is that he should make sure you submit to him regularly, and are under his oversight. According to my wife, most women require at least some spanking with a belt for paddle if a man is going to get through to them. When we were dating, as well as after we were first married, I bared my wife’s bottom before spanking it. Because this could be so easily done, disciplinary spankings of young women by mothers, fathers, boyfriends, or husbands were far more common than is the case today. i hadn’t completed one of my personal chores (going for a walk) even after he gave me another day to do so…anyway.

I mean when I turn her over my knee and it completely consensual I feel so stimulated by the whole experience.

There is a satisfaction in the dominance of humbling her, of making her vulnerable, and of everything you describe. From about 18″ distance the paddle makes a loud crack and I’m sure it really stings her bottoms as it land across both cheeks. Along with a woman’s initial haughtiness towards a man, the basic test for a woman is predicated on a belief that the man caring enough to tame her also cares enough to protect her. I’m going to go ahead and say it although it sounds terribly chauvinistic: We husbands are supposed to be the leaders.

There are a lot of women — the times they are a’changing — rapidly — who LOVE anal intercourse — and they aren’t silly or stupid. Quite often, if a young man really spanked a young woman’s her bare bottom when she needed it, led to marriage. Then, after a good cry over the parent’s knee, the would see even bossy big sisters did what their parents said and were a whole lot easier to live with. Also, in the end, whatever problems you are having with your current boyfriend will ultimately have to be worked out between the two of you. I know i want to please him more than it really mattered before…not that it didn’t matter at all, im just more apt to now…or at least so far.Has any one explored, or know of any one who has investigated,, the conjecture that Feminism is mostly about freeing women from the rule of men, so that they may be ruled – and far more harshly – by other women?