There's a really good chance he can't handle this at all, especially if you actually do feel emotionally distant from him and closer to the other person.

we are 72 and 71 and were playing prior to covid and wife has had a bf for nearly 10 yrs now (a former hs bf). Refusing to attend counseling for a problem he is causing sends up a HUGE red flag for me, a flag labeled "I refuse to take responsibility for the pain I am causing you, and I refuse to be part of the team that makes this marriage succeed. PARENTS, PLEASE BE ADVISED: If you are a parent, it is your responsibility to keep any age-restricted content from being displayed to your children or wards.Substitute any issue for this one, and the outright refusal to even assist in seeking counseling should be the trigger.

I don't think you should go along with what your husband wants, I think you should drop him like a hot coal but it would be nice to fantasise about a scenario where you tell him you followed his suggestion about sleeping with another man, and hey! Fast forward to not very long at all and my friend walks out on her husband, takes the kids, moves in with this guy, gets a divorce and spends the next forty years together until his death. I, like everyone else, am a nest of turn-ons, turn-offs, fetishes, desires, revulsions, and fantasies. He's not asking for a little light bondage here; he's asking for something huge and if getting that is critical to his sexual fulfillment, then he should have been upfront with you before any marriage vows were exchanged.Am I the only person left alive who doesn't give two fucks about anything Dan Savage has to say about what we should do in the bedroom? Your husband is entitled to his fantasies and if getting them fulfilled is a top priority for him, that's okay too. She told me that when she got home she was going to spend the day in the nude and whenever she thought of what we had done last night she was going to touch herself and relive the thought even if her husband was sitting there watching her. You will just be seen as a mature, sexy couple looking for fun like the hundreds of others in there.

But even if he were asking for something minor, and your reasons for refusing were sort of silly (say, he wanted you to wear a red negligee but you hate red because you think it's wrong for your skintone), a respectful husband would know when to drop it. We are both retired and in the prime of our lives, we have never had such high sex drives and we know how short life is. I pull myself from the moment, still slowly moving my hips, I run a hand through the golden hair on his tanned chest. I would have one more come-to-Jesus with him about this, where you tell him that not only is this totally something you will not do, but that you also add that his continuing to NOT SHUT UP AND DROP IT is also becoming its own problem, and that he needs to get it through his head that THIS IS NOT HAPPENING - and that this is his final warning, and if he asks you ONE more time about this AFTER this, that you're going to move out.The 103 third parties who use cookies on this service do so for their purposes of displaying and measuring personalized ads, generating audience insights, and developing and improving products. Because if he isn't respecting your wishes in such an intimate matter, he's a potential danger to you and you're better off not being around him at all. I don't try to be a youngster (even using that phrase shows my age, lol) or be someone that I am not, I am a gentleman and was brought up with good manners and conversational skills and I think that genuineness helps.

So at this point you're probably feeling like you're staring at a lifetime of constantly being put in the position of explaining yourself, and that's stressful. Nearing their twentieth wedding anniversary, G decides to try to keep up with his younger wife's sensual passions and explorations, inviting an imaginary lover in their bedroom play to watch and partake in their raunchy sessions, driving his wife wild and hot but when they take their anniversary celebrations to a hotel for a night of passion, the play lover becomes a reality in the hot, young stud of a guest next door. Furthermore, you represent and warrant that you will not allow any minor access to this site or services. I'm just trying to say there is no world, short of a female-sex-slave dystopia, where you're overreacting.Back when I was dating my soon-to-be-husband, he told me that he had endured a lot of cheating in his past relationships, and because of that, would be completely unforgiving if I were to cheat on him. To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. I know you want to explain things and have closure and understanding, but you've tried that a lot with this guy, and he's proven to be incapable of that. Swinger and sex parties are a great way to explore, just be sure to check the minimum and maximum age limits and be sure to ask the organizers for the average age range of members. So he pressured her into going to a key party, where his current girlfriend and her husband would be.