So true. ** workers need love too. A supportive husband can enjoy a stable marriage and the best ** ever. When I met my wife in college, she was working as a surrogate ** partner in a ** Clinic. She was a licensed Therapist and it was legal. Bell, you seem to be waiting for him to cross some invisible line of “really bad stuff” that will somehow give you permission to leave him. The problem with this is that in the process, really stuff happens to you, and it could escalate beyond what you’re prepared for. It’s the classic “frog in the pot” scenario, he has slowly been violating your boundaries in increasingly horrible ways, so you don’t notice the escalation. Trust me, bad stuff has already happened, just by nature of his posting your info and picture online and opening you up to danger. Then we got them drunk and slipped the drugs to them , both were high and had no problems ** their brains out . My wife screwed like it was here last breath and loved it . And I took a bunch of videos , those now are my evidence to make her stop wasting my money . I made copies and hid them . She screwed her brains out for hours loving my close friend . I did the same thing to his wife , the two women loved it . Most guys get all jealous etc but for me it’s honest intimate and she’s able to be free to express herself.

PS-I would never wish Mr Fab’s temper on anyone, but right now I am certain the Downgrade will be getting torn to shreds for sending him those pictures in the first place. Can’t be his fault, you see. It was the friendship with Bunny and the three years she spent in prison – 18 months for the robbery and then another 18 months for breaking parole - that made Samantha realise she needed to make a change.

Today’s Savage Love Letter of the Day is an outrageous and abusive example of this twisted mentality of ownership, disrespect and devaluing: In September 2012, Samantha gave birth to her son Jordan who was taken into foster care after two days, because of her history with drug and alcohol, which had become an addiction. Afterwards, I curled my legs inwards, feeling so ashamed and heartbroken. I cleaned myself up and left but that night changed my life. It’s a night I’ll never be able to erase.”

Christopher, Matthew and Shane Whiteley were on trial with Amanda Spencer Credit: PA:Press Association As for why he didn’t make an effort to hide it from you, it’s quite simple: He enjoys hurting you. I know you don’t want to believe this, but if you pay attention to his actions and not his words, it’s evident that your husband gets off on the toxic cycle of sneaking around in plain sight, getting caught, getting punished and then being forgiven. Every time you get angry and then forgive him, he feels desirable. SEE ALSO: Bosom PYung exposes Legon girls who have sent him nakked videos & photos after ‘Ataa Adwoa’ (Photos) There is nothing wrong with sex or a mutal agreement to do things like this, but it has to be 'you' been true to yourself, or you walk through the veil of fantasy and we all know fantasy is not the 'real' deal, this is the place we meet untruth, uncertainty, things with no real value. My point is whether you are willing, or not, to engage in these activities at the moment — don’t let the event become a photo history for anyone’s use. Giving consent for a photo – for private use – is of no use if you cannot enforce the promise. You can’t make other people keep a promise, especially if they make promises they never intend to keep. All of us have regrets for moments of stupidity that happened in our lives. Be grateful if none of them were caught in a “Kodak Moment.”

I am neeting A pimp to whore me out

Oh, but you’re bi. Oh, but you once enjoyed a threesome. That’s besides the point. The point is CONSENT. Your husband is gaslighting you. He’s acting like you gave consent (because you once did upon a time) when you gave no such consent. This happened three times, he’s acting like him sending pictures out happened once and oops, he didn’t think you’d be upset. She got the prostitute part out of her system, but we continued to have lots of sexual adventures with single men, women, couples and ** groups for many years. It was a fun and exciting time in our lives. And, if you ever get the opportunity to have an ** ** with 2 women, I highly recommend it (we always seemed to find bisexual women who liked ** **).

In the end, I felt she was my best friend and the only one who seemed to really care about me so I went along with it.” I was constantly truanting from school at this point. She had him arrested for that. His face and arms were bruised and skin shredded from the broken dishes. He was released almost immediately, when the police figured out what was going on. Once, out of nowhere, this guy grabbed me and forced me onto the floor. I lay still as he raped me on the floorboards, thinking over and over again how proud Amanda would be of me. I was totally under her spell.”Twelve years later, we have two children and my wife is still a licensed surrogate and on call with several psychiatrists. I make a good living, but she loves her work and still services 6 to 8 clients every month. Many require several sessions.

Blessings on your journey, wherever it may lead, but I would advocate that ANYone in an abusive relationship to call the abuse what it is, and get the hell out. He sets up a “surprise appointment” with someone without telling you, so you walk into this situation unaware – forcing you to make a decision that could harm you physically and emotionally on the spot? Amanda didn’t physically force me to have sex but emotionally, she made me feel like she was the only one who cared and I had to do these things to keep her friendship. He is lying to you about his intent, blaming you, gaslighting, and cheating. Furthermore, he is using you and your photos illegally. Normally I find interaction “in the internet world” too limited in scope and context to really be meaningful. Of course none of us can really give each other completely clear, non-biased insight; we don’t know/can’t see the full picture of what is going on, and even our own perceptions on our own stories are extremely biased by nature; we are self preserving creatures.Ian Foster, 68, was jailed for 14 years in 2014 after he was found guilty of three counts of sexual assault. Very well said ChumpBolero. The thought of anybody, even a trusted husband (cough) in this day and age can find these photos or videos online (kids!) and the worst is finding them online forever exists, w/o your permission. However, I have learned a great deal about sexuality and its varieties as I have gotten older. I am not sure I was mature enough to understand it when I first became sexually active — I had to learn some things the hard way. I just know that some “voice” inside my head told me “OK” or “NOT OK” whenever I found myself in that situation. I don’t care what anyone else WANTS to do, I only care about the pressure they feel they can put on me to comply with whatever it is. I feel I should always have the right to say NO. I think that people who coerce others into sexual activity through force or drugs, or alcohol or undue influence (threats of job loss, or abandonment) are despicable people. I do not trust anyone with intimate photos of me, and taking them would make me feel uncomfortable, not sexy. I don’t want pictures of my SO’s private parts either, and I don’t want a three-some or to attend an orgy or to swing. I don’t care what other people do — that is just what I want to do, or not do. I will never be with another person who does not respect my boundaries, even if it means I may be alone the rest of my life. It is MY CORE, and it is IMPORTANT TO ME. In answer to your question, yes I have done it, and if you do, be sure your eyes are wide open to where you MAY wind up. And yes!my partner/ husband loved me and still loves me, don't know if he would fall asleep and walk in the shadows for me though? They were found guilty of multiple sexual offences including rape, sexual assault against a child under 13 and conspiracy to arrange child prostitution and theft.