Distance Between Arms: “Since not all rabbits are made with the same dimensions, it may be beneficial to know how far apart your vaginal opening is from your clitoris,” Marie suggests. “The distance usually is somewhere between 1.5 and 3.5 centimeters [or 0.6 to 1.4 inches] apart, so the dimensions of the rabbit can have a huge effect on whether it will work for your body or not.”

The Duke offers P-spot and perineal pressure, two vibrational speeds, and three patterns to cycle between. There’s even a cavity that can hold a bullet vibrator for added sensation. The S-shaped toy bulges at one end with 4.4 inches of girth—a big step up in size from most prostate massagers, so it’s best suited to someone more familiar and comfortable with anal sex. The first setting is how the Wave is advertised: The classic "come hither" motion for the g-spot with the vibrating base as well as the vibrating tip to stimulate the clit. The second setting includes the come hither motion and vibrating tip, but the base doesn't vibrate. Pros: Strong and rumbly vibrations; customizable vibration settings; rotating internal arm for G-spot stimulation; flexible clitoral arm; each arm can be controlled independently; can be controlled long-distance; has “teledildonic” capabilities when paired with other Lovense toys via the Lovense app; long battery life In one article, Lelo aimed to dismantle the unhealthy perception that men who go the extra mile by using pleasure devices are overly invested in masturbation. Katy Thorn, the writer, argued: "You really don't need any other justification other than the fact that it feels good—some people are willing to spend a little extra time and effort to feel good, and some aren't." Sex therapist Ness Cooper recommends this flexible, bendable rabbit vibe, especially if you ever struggle with genital pain, or have found overly firm toys to be uncomfortable in the past. "The flexibility allows me to adjust the internal shaft to work with my body, rather than fight against it," she says. "I like how the motors are consistent too, and I can flex the external 'rabbit' part to rest exactly over my clitoris."Hugo is a remote-controlled prostate massager. It's built to provide stimulation to the prostate, which according to Lelo, "can increase the size and intensity of the male climax by 33 percent." The Hugo has two vibrating motors—at its base and on the tip. It's motion controlled, with programs said to offer more options than the standard male vibrator. Prostate massage is undoubtedly a taboo subject for some, particularly because of its association with acts of sodomy or homosexuality. But these are archaic viewpoints that ignore the technique's actual medical applications. 1 Of course, the intended outcome of the medical and non-medical application of a massager is an ejaculatory climax.

For me I found it took awhile and experimenting with a quite a few different kinds of toys, what works best for me may not work for you. For me I found Plugs work the best nothing too big, and very relaxing atmosphere where I can concentrate on the feelings maybe a glass or two of wine, even better if you have a playmate to help and to enjoy the feelings with you.. sometimes it ( comes ) ( no pun in waves.. I have recently bought the lovense lush 3 not cheap but very enjoyable and well worth the money. Insider Tip: You can control the Vector+ with the included remote or your smartphone, but the device can’t pair with both simultaneously. So, if it’s already paired with the remote (which is how the device arrives), you won’t be able to sync it with your smartphone. Unpairing the remote can be a pain in and of itself, so go ahead and just yank the battery out of the remote, and you’ll be able to pair it with your smartphone straight away. The company’s Rude Boy model is more akin to the Lovense Edge 2 and the We-Vibe Vector+, but you don’t get any of the smartphone connectivity features, and its availability from U.S.-based distributors is low. It also has a texture around the tip that may make it uncomfortable for some men, especially those new to prostate massage.

Soraya 2, Wave, or Ina Wave?

The prostate is a walnut-sized organ sitting between the forward wall of a man's rectum and his bladder. It produces the fluid that mixes with sperm to form semen. Pros: Pressure-wave stimulation instead of clitoral vibration; strong, rumbly internal vibrations; each function can be controlled separately; 14 intensity levels and 10 vibration patterns; comes with two differently-sized stimulator heads to fit a range of clitoris sizes; waterproof Nü Sensuelle offers a trio of compelling massagers that do away with the balanced base you see on many other models. The ergonomic handle that takes its place is quite comfortable to hold and gives you a lot of control over depth, position, and pressure. Of course, this is at the cost of hands-free convenience and discretion.

Mishra, V. C., Browne, J., & Emberton, M. (2008). Role of repeated prostatic massage in chronic prostatitis: a systematic review of the literature. Urology, 72(4), 731–735.Fahmy, I., Kamal, A., Metwali, M., Rhodes, C., Mansour, R., Serour, G., & Aboulghar, M. (1999). Vigorous prostatic massage: a simple method to retrieve spermatozoa for intracytoplasmic sperm injection in psychogenic anejaculation: case report. Human Reproduction (Oxford, England), 14(8), 2050–2053. The Soraya Wave was adapted from the Soraya 2 model, a spokesman from LELO told Mashable. "The thinking behind reengineering the product with our WaveMotion technology was to appeal to a wider audience of users by offering a similar product that provided a different sensation," they said. "The main USP [unique selling point] of Soraya Wave is that it provides enhanced G-spot stimulation by simulating the come-hither motion of a lover's finger tips (in contrast to G-spot stimulation via vibration alone)." The Soraya 2 vs. Soraya Wave Having a partner help you with your prostate massage is always a good idea, especially if they can go slow and listen to you carefully. If you take your time and follow these steps, you'll be on your way to significant pleasure: Rogers J. (1992). Testing for and the role of anal and rectal sensation. Bailliere's Clinical Gastroenterology, 6(1), 179–191.