If you liked this story you should give our new sex podcast Good Sex Bad Sex a listen – it’s out every Wednesday. From a dominant perspective, it’s the control and submission that you receive which makes it a turn-on. Jimmy, 29, east London, straight, self-employed Myself, I see nothing wrong with ejaculating on your wife. In fact, it can be beneficial in some circumstances. When recovering from a porn/masturbation addiction Oddly, we also seem to prefer an early morning facial, with high search spikes for the phrase between 4am and 5am on Google this past week.

Korin Miller is a writer, SEO nerd, wife, and mom to a little two-year-old dude named Miles. Korin has worked for The Washington PostNew York Daily NewsCosmopolitan Infection-by-eye cases are rare because it takes some effort to actually get semen in an eye on purpose, plus most people don't realize that's what did it when they're asked about their risky behavior. That said, it still happens and can happen. It's very easy to avoid the problem. Close those eyes, communicate, and you should be just fine.

Thanks to pornography, facials a more commonplace sexual fantasy. While ejaculating on a face may seem innocuous, it actually carries a somewhat high risk factor. If you plan to come on someone's face or let someone come on yours, you ought to know how to do it safely. The Problem I sympathise with you. Your world has been shaken to the core. Things will never be the same again between you. You might be able to relaunch your relationship. She could vow to be faithful from now on, and you might forgive her. But I doubt it will work. You would have to be a saint, and she a convert. The spectre of that scene is always going to be in the way.

I like facials because I love the dominance my master has over me, it’s like he’s marking his territory. Of course, we're not talking about organic solvents (hopefully). We're talking about semen, but even that can hurt when entering an eye because it can contain acid phosphatase and citric acid. A man's sperm can also carry all sorts of diseases and infections, like the dreaded HIV, and that's not something you want to transmit or receive if you can help it. Hopefully you wouldn't willfully put yourself or your partner at risk if infected, but it's easy to incur and infection and not necessarily know about it. The Body, a popular HIV resource, explains why the eyes are a point of risk:When a sub is giving you oral sex, she wants a reward or a climax. Lauren, 30, Bristol, straight, solicitor Sometimes, I worry that my liking it when a guy comes on my face makes me a bad feminist, but after the act is done, my partner gently wipes my face and thanks me. Me and my wife have been married for 12 years now.I never expected this from her.One day when I got home from work I walked in on her giving head to another man.He immediately ran out of the apartment,didn't even have time to get dressed.In our house she dared to do such a disgusting thing.I demanded an explanation straight away and to be honest I don't even know how I found it within me not to beat her up in my anger but anyway she said out of boredom.I love her so I don't want to divorce her but I can't get over this moreover I can't be sure she won't do it again.Maybe part of it is my fault because I have been neglecting our sex life lately but that is not the right way to go about it.She cried a lot,I cried too,it was tough but at the end of the day i love her

I love how you can see the girl’s eyes looking right at you, as you come all over her face. It’s the ultimate sort of ownership. Gavin, 35, London, straight, works in technology Metro bloggers Miranda Kane and Bibi Lynch co-host the show, chatting to a different guest about all things sex and relationships each week. Whatever you decide, is what you think you can live with. If you decide that you want to give the marriage a try and make it work, FIND a GOOD couples-counselor and start from there. Forgiveness is important, whether you stay married or not. NOT for her, but for you. Living with her actions can make you resentful and bitter and that isn't fair on YOU. However, this is deal with Onan running from his responsibility to provide an heir for his brother’s line, not because he “pulled out”. So, I’m going to disregard that verse in reference to this question, and suggest you do the same.and , where she learned more than anyone ever should about sex. She has an unhealthy addiction to gifs. And some of my coaching clients have gone “eww…” at the thought, but it works. In short, the husband is not allowed to ejaculate anywhere except in, or on, his wife. Why? Because it removes the ability to orgasm alone and so it removes the ability for the husband to have a sexual life apart from his wife. But, it still allows for mutual masturbation, and that can be very helpful for many husbands who are struggling to remove themselves from porn. Sometimes husbands find they can’t have sex any more because they’re so used to porn. Their brain doesn’t associate their wife with enough sexual stimulation to get erect, let alone orgasm, and so mutual masturbation forms a bridge to retrain the husband to have a sexual relationship with his wife again, and ejaculating on his wife further helps that connection. It insures there are very close when he orgasms, which helps when oxytocin is released and imprints that connection in his mind. During her period Also, the sensation itself is primal and unique. Almost like running through a thunderstorm. Alexander, 29, Surrey, straight, massage therapist

Cheating is a deal-breaker for me. It erodes trust and honestly attract/affections towards the cheater and then WHAT do you have? This happened to my fiancé a few years ago (not by me). He stayed, but she cheated three more times. By the end he was broken, and he still has major trust issues. He left in the end and now we are happier than ever in our relationship. Problems in a relationship need to be resolved together, and not by cheating, so it's not your fault she cheated. That is her choice and her responsibility. To break up or forgive ... is your decision to be made and whatever you decide is a correct decision for you. The image of what you saw her doing will, indeed, linger in your mind for a very long time, perhaps for ever, and it will always be a trigger of anxiety, regret, anger, disgust... Some people can live with that and some don't. If you are a guy who can't then cut your losses and divorce.Then, the decision becomes again, mutual masturbation, or give up. Before a gynecologist appointment