This toy has a gentle curve to hit your prostate, and comes with an optional silicone suction-cup base that you'll enjoy if you want to be able to back up onto the toy or lower yourself down onto it—just press the base against a smooth, flat surface like a wall, tile floor, or mirror, and you're good to go. This is optional, but if you want the person wearing the strap-on to feel pleasure (and maybe even be able to get off), it can help to tuck a bullet vibrator behind the dildo so it buzzes against the wearer’s junk.

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Designed to help you learn to last longer, this highly textured stroker can feel overstimulating at first—but the more you practice edging with it, the better you'll be able to control yourself when boning an actual person.Beginners will absolutely love this thing—it can reach speeds of up to 600 strokes per minute, so it’s definitely an upgrade from what your hand can do. This type of harness is also comfy enough to be worn under clothes if, for example, you want to be ready for fun as soon as you get home from date night. What’s more, it comes with a remote and a rotating head, so it perfectly massages that sweet spot inside your anus. Pop on some water-based lubricant and strap in for a wild ride – your body won’t know what hit it when you’re leaking fluid and shaking all over the bed in pleasure.

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Being made of metal, though, this wand is one of the heaviest on this list, so it's best avoided if you have hand strength issues or just don't want masturbation to turn into an arm workout. But with the right mindset, process, lube, and toy, you’ll get more chances of finding this spot for out-of-this-world pleasure! Tantus is a small, mission-based sexual health company focused on manufacturing body safe products with unsurpassed quality for all. Whether you’re experienced or adventurous, Walter’s engineering sets it apart as a top-tier thrusting anal dildo. It's one of those rare pieces of sex furniture that might actually get used as furniture just as often as it's used for sex, assuming you have enough space for it.

If you determine you love the sensation of something inside you, then you can upgrade to a more expensive vibrating model like the Aneros Vice 2, which packs a powerful motor into a discreet device. Go ahead, laugh: but what is technology supposed to do besides make our lives easier and more pleasant? Oh, and there’s Nexus Revo with the rotating beads that feels like a real finger is inside you and encircling your prostate.