A hybrid like the *thick* Hybrid Jelle works well with silicone toys; does not damage them, I promise. Some days I do love a good suction cup, but other days I’d rather have the more precise control I get from jerking my dildos by hand.

Most have to work to arch in the right way but my arching back is stress free and easy due to my medical condition. My Silicone Suction Cup Dildo Guide has three other hands-free alternatives that you can use even if your dildo doesn’t have a built-in suction cup. I actually LOVE the washing machine idea, especially to do it while the washer is running to create nice vibrations! My new toy arrived yesterday and I sadly realized that I’m not as flexible as I used to be so the floor was no option at all… v.2 sometimes for doggy-style, but I love it with the Velvet Thruster Mini Teddy self-thrusting dildo! This bendable toy is less flexible-during-use than others I’ve tried, so it feels erect enough yet conforms well to my vag. I use my hands to push off against the body of the nightstand, so I can control the angle of penetration well with this technique. Plus, the door has to be sturdy enough that you don’t break the “wood” (or whatever kind of imitation-wood material, in my house’s case) or tear the door off the hinge. And again, it wasn’t terribly comfortable because the plastic edges were digging into my legs and the box was too wide.

Finding the right suction cup dildo position can be a real challenge (especially if you’re not as young as you used to be ☺). This is the holy grail of suction-cup-dildo screwing for me, for both anal play and as a vaginal toy. If you disagree with me and love this position, then a silicone/water-based hybrid lube might help you stay better lubricated for longer. The longest silicone dildo I know of that isn’t big in girth too is the VixSkin Slim, in case you’re needing extra length. The pillow’s foam is super firm so that it doesn’t sink down under my body weight, and it’s comfortable to sit on/really grind against, for both vaginal and anal play.My suction cups dildos work awesome but I need to create some form of harness for my Holmes and Bam. That means that if your pelvis doesn’t line up with the crossbar, you’re out of luck—unless you can put the dildo on either side comfortably. Silicone is the only safe, easy to clean option for long-term use when we’re talking about suction cupped toys. Keep reading for details about the trials and tribulations (😉) 2 I’ve undergone while sticking dildos all over my house. inch length + strong curve make it one of the very few dildos I can get good hands-free G-spot orgasms from (without a partner!

Also, you’ll likely need a stack of pillows/towels if you don’t want one knee to be seriously higher than the other. Again, if you’re into clenching rather than thrusting, this could be great—especially if your bathtub has a slanted back like some Jacuzzi-type tubs do. While I’m standing with a dildo entering me from behind, I often feel like I’m going to fall over when I try to get a good rhythm going. My knees still get in the way a little here, but this ledge lets me rest my hands there and gives more room for my head and breasts.Turning off the personalised advertising setting won’t stop you from seeing Etsy ads, but it may make the ads you see less relevant or more repetitive.

Maybe I’m using the wrong kind of chair, though—the ones from my kitchen table are wide and so not comfortable to wrap my legs around.We strapped the container to the end of the bed with a bungee cord and it works great for pigroasting position.