I'm sorry, but are you insane? It's disgusting to think a parent would encourage their child to be promiscuous. This lifestyle should develop organically, not be coerced by abusing a parental role. Unbelievable!

I just want to thank all the people who have posted opinions on my situation. I have carefully read all of them. Wow, some people can be so ungrateful. Does she not realize that you are going very far out of your way to put up with her, her BF and her three kids? And if I read this right, not only are you putting a roof over their heads, but feeding them all too? As expected, my husband wasn’t a happy man, and his and Sam’s friendship looked to be coming to an end. It had become obvious to all that we had taken things too far, and become far too close. I felt like someone was slowly ripping my heart out, I wasn’t ready to let Sam go, I couldn’t just turn off the feelings I had. At the same time I wasn’t prepared to leave my husband. I felt suffocated and trapped by my own emotions. My reaction was the same as yours. The Daughter has portrayed this as some accidental occurrence of walking in on her Mom. But she clearly was looking to walk in on something. Perhaps she thought she would catch her Dad in the act of servicing a guy. With the full intention of springing that on her Mom later. ("You won't believe what I caught Dad doing...") Sorry to here what you went and are going through.... You were very breif on how you and your wife got into swinging, but I know from experience you have to communicate before and after any swinging experience and the one rule we made was ... If any of us is not OK with something it should be talked about as soon as possible. So I think your first mistake was contininuing to push the lifestyle on someone who wasn't into it. This may have led her to believe that she was enough. The second was letting her go for a walk when you obviously weren't ok with it. Finally you have no mention of any rules that the two of you set before getting into the lifestyle, this is crucial and should be reviewed regularily.Then everything changed the night I met Sam. He was older and cheeky and I immediately felt drawn to him. We didn’t spend a lot of time chatting that night, but when we returned a couple of weeks later I secretly felt excited to see that Sam and his partner had attended the club again too. Mentioned on this Episode: Swinger Elle ~ Mr Richardson ~ Goddess Jade Li ~ Pedro and Tink from Kitchen Sink, ENM and Kink Podcast But our daughter and her family are dependent on our help, to survive, especially since the Covid-19 virus hit here in the Northeast U.S., and She hasn't worked for almost two yesrs, and her boyfriend doesn't have a fulltime job.

Although extremely angry at me, he could see this was serious. He knew me, he knew that I was struggling and when my words eventually came, he listened. To this day I don’t know what I did to deserve such an amazing person in my life. This man and his doormat accomplice were PREDATORS, themselves using swinging gatherings for their 'respectable' front as they mercinarily trawled the greenest members for mistress fodder. Your wife is now a prostitute. And you've just seen one of her truer colours: selfish, exploitative, materialistic and greedy. She and he are clearly well suited.My daughter is wrong and I have asked for an apology and also told her that Her Mother and I love each other probably more than most married adults. I told her that I would never ever snoop through her bedroom drawers or any other place at her house. My sons are not fathered by me rather by my wife's first Bull,and we will not disclose that fact to them. Swinging is a bit like Communism. Great as an ideal, frequently sh*t in practise. The reason? HUMAN BEINGS! The NRA may be bankrupt (in more ways than one), but in Ada, Oklahoma, as well as Acworth, Georgia and a bunch of other pious little American towns, it’s easier to buy a gun than to vote. And you don’t even have to buy the gun if your husband already has one.

Sexually we were very comfortable, and in our younger years dabbled in the world of swinging. The bond we had enabled us to share ourselves and each other, and trust that our emotions and physical fun could be happily kept separate. Doc Chocolate BBC and Amy Idaho the CA Unicorn Girl recount their FUN experience at PODBASH Las Vegas which was the 3rd annual event hosted by Brenna & Brian of Front Porch Swingers. This is the first of two parts covering our recount of this AWESOME Lifestyle event!! She says "Oh my God, I can't believe you guys are still doing 'That', I can't deal with picturing You Guys having Sex!" The biggest area that could have been dealt with better was getting into swinging is about both of you and the way you pressed the issue when she clearly said "NO" several times is probably where she may have got it in her head that she wasn't good enough for you. Within my relationship with my SO we have a rule every night/experience ends together.

The next morning my husband went to work as he aways did, and Sam and I were left at home. He came to lie with me on my bed, and we both cried. We kissed, we held each other, and we cried. “You know we can’t see each other again,” he told me over and over. “We have to end this.” My tears were constant and I just shook my head, over and over, “You can’t just walk out of my life…” It’s eerie how this latest Church-based, easy-access-to-guns-greased, taboo-sex-tinged murder comes so close on the heels of Georgia’s Massage Parlor Massacre. Both are cautionary tales about the toxic mix of guns, God, race and sex problems. The mention of visiting a swingers club (where couples swap partners for an evening) had come up a few times, and eventually we decided to take the plunge. We set our rules before we headed in, both extremely nervous, neither knowing what to expect. The night was fabulous, we met amazing people, loved the friendly relaxed atmosphere and felt more than comfortable ending the night with the intentions we had in mind. One thing though, it would be foolish to not believe that the daughter in this situation may be doing some research on understanding as part of HER processing of what she saw.