This step is about more than just the flirting, though. It’s about what you do with your husband afterwards, too. Your husband’s eyes go wide for a moment as it dawns on him that his fantasy is on your mind. “Oh, really?” he asks. “What…why were you thinking about him?” Getting her to talk about them will make her think of and remember certain instances where she was with another guy and probably enjoyed it. This also tells her that you're comfortable including a sexual encounter she's had with another man in your shared space. If you can, do some of the things that your wife has mentioned to you from her past in bed. Ten to one it will make her think of her ex while you're doing it. Even better do it while she's blindfolded. This Saturday we have another little rendezvous with Phil set up, my friend tells me he's capable of far worse. Im eager to see how much worse he can get. Ill post this Saturdays story next week. Ciao What I like most is the feeling of helplessness. I guess that’s the turn-on, watching my girlfriend being taken by another man in front of me.

I hope that some of the ideas above have been helpful (or at least entertaining) for you and that you accomplish your training goals, whatever they are. Thank you for reading 🙂 Be prepared, though, for the possibility that your partner may not share your enthusiasm. Be honestMost women will need time to digest this and really think about what it means for their relationship/marriage/lifestyle. Bras All the Time – Buy him bras. Delicate little bras with lots of lace. Buy matching bra and panty sets. Make him wear them. Make him wear them all the time. After all, he’s no longer a real man so he might as well wear women’s underwear. Punishment may be many different things depending on your style. You can be passive aggressive by withdrawing sex. You can be very aggressive and spank him. You can force him to do something perverted like eating his own semen. Just make sure you communicate with him at the time of his infracture that you are displeased with him, and that there will be consequences. Judge his reaction. His eyes may light up or his heart may start beating faster. He'll try to hide his excitement of course. You get upset. Sleep with other guys? Are you out of your mind? I’m not a slut. What you’re asking is disgusting. I’m not like that.

I would say that if you are looking to broach the subject with your partner, try using it as a bit of dirty-talk first. A lifestyle choice?Below you’ll find a list of ideas that can help make your husband more submissive. Please note that these go hand in hand with everything you’ve learned above, particularly your control over his orgasms. Remember that he’ll work hard to earn his orgasm and to please you, and don’t be afraid to make it clear that if he wants to cum he needs to do as you desire. Again, he’ll almost certainly find it thrilling: The beauty of being mean to your husband isn't in its direct benefits, but in how it redefines being nice. Things that used to be normal for him are now special treats. He used to be able to have sex with you whenever he wanted, but because you've withdrawn sex from him, you've made it a rare event - something to behold. By being constantly mean to you husband, you'll lower his standard of what is considered nice. Don’t be shy too. I know it’s hard, but a real partner wouldn’t make you feel embarrassed about your deepest sexual fantasies. Work Around the House in Women’s Clothes – Have him do his chores around the house in his feminine underwear or sleepwear. Or, buy him a pretty maid’s uniform and make him wear that. But I don’t interact with the man, it’s more about watching them. It’s made us more passionate as a couple, although we have rules while we do it.

Also don't let him call you by name anymore. Only equals can call each other by name. Force him to refer to you as "Mistress" or "Goddess." When you ask him a yes or no question, make him respond with "Yes, Mam" or "No, Mam." This will help condition him as a subordinate.

Dealing with His Feelings and Aftercare

That’s just a handful of ideas. I’m sure you could come up with lots more if you were in the mood to completely eradicate your husband’s masculinity. Move Him Out of the Master Bedroom Ladies: has your boyfriend, fiance, or husband ever talked dirty to you about flirting with other men? You enjoy it when your wife explores her sexual side with new boyfriends without you being present. Remember, each relationship is unique, necessitating open dialogue and adaptability to meet the needs of all participants.

Even if they’re not on board, sharing your desires can open the way for other exploration and kink. Have all the information Men are incredibly easy to train if you understand what drives them. I am for sure no expert, I am a real wife who just wanted to improve her marriage, not a professional Dominatrix. So this is a place to start, this is where I started, this is the path that will work for 2/3 of all women: It’s been a few hours and it’s almost 4am over here but couldn’t sleep with excitement and Wifey fell asleep almost immediately after we cuddled up to each other. Take a deep breath and start the conversation without any preconceived expectations or assumptions about how they’ll respond. Number one, it’s just good for your self esteem. Being desired by a hot guy just makes you feel good.The first submission of your husband is the most challenging phase of the process. Even if he wants to be your slave, he will resist. There are many reasons he will do this like gender stereotypes and the years of routine between you, but first and foremost will be that he wants to save-face. Not only can he not admit to you that he wants to be your bitch, but he can't admit it to himself either. He will never just give you power over him even though he wants to. This would violate his manhood. You need to take it from him - it's the only way. It could be something as innocent as messaging them on Facebook or texting them to get coffee or something. Psychologists have suggested a number of reasons why someone may be turned on by their partner having sex with someone else. Biology