Some are simply wish fulfillment; "See, though I have made an adjustment to live as a man, if someone made me live as a girl I could be happy and it wouldn't be my fault." Being Christina Chase by Admiral Crunch An unfortunate remainder will never be happy as women, possibly not even as lesbians as they so miss being men, and thus will be as if they were born TG. I know women who never seem to wear skirts. One woman I know wears pants but always wears a top that comes to mid thigh as in the Indian or Muslim tradition. I also know a few women who wear only skirts, unless circumstances dictate pants. The fact that I wear only skirts is probably a reaction to years of not being able to do that. Over time, I have begun to wear pants if I really need to for practicality, and that decision point is way off center. Most of the time, I feel forced and a little pissed when I have to put on my one pair of Jeans. I'm not saying the second choice is an easy one. And I'm not saying that this is always an option -- that someone born transgendered should be able to just "shut up and soldier." I know from one of my closest friends that doing your best to just "keep on keeping on" often translates into "hanging on in quiet desperation" as Pink Floyd once said. But in a fictional setting, someone with years of life experience learning and adapting to new situations could conceivably adjust to having such a drastic life change thrust upon them. One of my characters, Stark, is coming to grips with her new life, and what she chose to become to cope with the nature of her change -- and isn't liking what she sees. Another one, Regina in The Hardest Battle, is using the lessons she was taught as her father's heir and prince of the realm to deal with her transformation -- "seeing the battlefield as it is, and not how we wish it could be."

Take for example, the character of Jerome in O2bxx's "For a Girl." http://www.fmstories.com/stories/scifi/foragirl.txt For me, accepting the idea that "transformation will never physically happen to me" ended when I fully accepted the 90/10 rule: 10% of life is what happens to you (the cards you are dealt). 90% is how you *react* to it. The Western art canon she'd learned about was made up of great men and a scant number of great women -- most of them white, ostensibly straight, and all of them cisgender. The museums and galleries she went to reinforced this message, as did her classes at Cooper Union, until she fully believed the lie that transfeminine artists didn't exist. Forced feminization" perhaps gets used far too often, as well as incorrectly. I am guilty of this. It is I tend to like stories that have some sort of transformation in them. Seeing how people cope and adapt in unusual or changing situations is very interesting.This person is changed against their will and never really adjusts or accepts the changes, no matter how long and hard they tried. I never dress Alice in sissy clothing. I feel this is too much of an exaggeration and highlights her as a male in clothing that no woman would ever wear, i.e. it’s male fantasy wear. I want Alice to think and act and become a real girl. All her clothes are from the female sections of online and real shops, albeit very girly. I tried for over half a century to cope with and adapt to living in a body and role that just did not fit. I struggled, dissembled, argued with God, lied to myself and others, all to no avail.

Accepting change - any change in one's life - is entirely personal. We humans are supposed to be the masters of adaptation - living in almost any physical climate on earth from desert wastelands to high altitudes to brutal tundras to rain forests. But what parts of our environment and our selves we are willing to adapt to is entirely up to the individual. Fiction is fun and I write a lot myself about forced feminisation as a method of punishment. The truth is far more complex in real-life relationships. Alice’s forced feminization was a gift, it gave me control, she is a better person and she’s even more attractive as a girl. It adds a certain spice to our marriage.

I'm not a fan of forced anything! It's too much like school. That's not meant as a funny. As children, we do not have a choice, our parents decide. I was enrolled in a Baptist Church even before I knew what a baptist was!

May 18, 2022I don't believe anything from Fiona Dobson and I don't believe your stories, @Kimberc . They read like fantasies which means they probably are. As for me, the battle was too bitterly fought; the losses too great; the grief too sharp. May I never own more than one pair of pants, and may they smell moldy when I do pull them out of the very bottom of the bottom drawer of my dresser. Viva La Skirts ! ! ! ! :) Status differential. A dominant lady will wear normal female clothing. My feminised husband has to wear young girl’s clothing or something a little bimbo. Mini skirts, frills and pleats. Pinks, yellows and whites. Clothing is one of the greatest ways to show status differential.

My Girlfriend Forced Me to Paint My Nails by JamieRG, literature

I wanted to get into this sort of Freudian, psychoanalytic space where all these roles are totally interchangeable despite the power dynamics," Sofia tells me. "I wanted to communicate how that can all happen internally to a single person." If there are any women reading this that are using the program to teach a cheating husband/boyfriend or sexist man a lesson, each step can be easily adjusted to inflict humiliation on those who are not worthy. The truth is that in an ideal world I would want Alice to be permanently feminised like Selina, Katrina’s husband, but circumstances don’t yet allow that. I am working on scenarios to accomplish this but know I’ll face resistance. TO GIVE FEMALE HORMONES OR NOT? Transformation is the death of what you are and the birth of whatever you are changing into. TF stories are about change. In my own case, my husband didn’t know about feminisation and FLRs when we first met. Neither did I in those terms, I just liked my own way and for my men to be submissive. Alice’s feminisation was a little further along the forced line.

Please don’t ask for personal training, though. Follow the steps as laid out here. There is more than enough to keep you busy. Even if you are experienced, with your very own, feminine wardrobe and you dress regularly, the discipline of having your femininity re-enforced by these tasks will still be thrilling.In the story, For a Girl, it is explained to the boys forced to be girls by some nanite serum some twisted group is slipping to random individuals, that the largest fraction of the transformed will end up fairly happy in their lives as women and attracted to both males and females. Another group, overlapping some others is: "Everyone is a little bit of everything, many men could discover their feminine sides if given the opportunity to do it without guilt." Can't think of an unequivocal example but there are lots of partial ones like "Eerie Saloon" by Ellie Dauber and Christopher Leeson. You’ve come to the right place. During my years as a therapist, I have worked with many girls who were starting on their transition. It is a process that should not be rushed.