It is dreadfully painful every time it happens but I realise that I do not get spanked unless I deserve it and I also know that the spankings both as punishment and attitude adjustment are a very positive influence on my behaviour. The knowledge of a severe spanking being the sure consequence of misbehaviour is in many cases effective deterrent and it seems that I remember better with my bottom than with head and often it is the bottom that warns me and makes me stop before I get out of line. Just opening the cupboard and see the strap hanging there makes me tremble and better remember to behave well. I was more helpless than I could ever remember! My face was strapped into the leather facemask, and I could see nothing. It must be devastating to find your husband has been lying and I'm in no way trying to minimise how horrible that is.

I know quite a few couples where the man uses services of a dominatrix as the women in the relationship does not want to take part in these activities. They have happy relationships. What works for them might not work for you though. It wouldn't work for me or my hubby, but who am I to judge?So you should be. I've had a terrible day and now you can't even be civil to me for thirty seconds out of your oh so With my partial immaturity, I need to have limits and structure and discipline in my life and I need my husband to provide it so I can feel safe. Paul and I are both newly weds in our late 20s. I went to public schools and he went to a private prep school. I was fascinated by his stories. He told me of how boys and girls received spankings for infractions. I pressed for details. He said every day if you were written up, you reported to a detention room after classes.

So long as the rules are clear then what is your problem? Children have minds of their own and if they choose to disobey the rules then surely it is right for them to suffer reprisals. You had to head straight for the toilet to run your hands under cold water while muttering obscenities. It left wheals on the palm of your hand just below the fingers and it would be sore for a couple of days.Rest assured ladies, in our house…the toilet seat is always down, his clothes are always in the hamper, and the hidden hanger hunts are now a thing of the past. With my nose pressed to the wall, I heard Ms Mindy's steps and two other sets of footsteps enter my cell. It sounded like they were dragging a heavy wooden object, I heard the scraping of wood on concrete. I do own some very good rattans (not the sex-shop things we had bought at the outset; in the meantime we got ours from reputable cane makers, and Stef says he can “feel” very much the difference to our former sex-shop rattans very well…). For those of you who follow or have read our blog before, and have read about the infamous trips to the woodshed for Joey, you’ll know that they are not experiences he’s eager to receive.

Something worth bearing in mind is that when you confront hum him with complaints about this, or indeed any other aspect of your relationship, you are feeding his need to be told off/humiliated/punished. punis His response to that is practised: I'm sorry mistress I won't do it again, I'll do whatever you say. Regarding sandals, We have a store named Gabes near us that I found a pair of rubbery plastic sandals that are so firm they hardly bend. I cant wear them but they were cheap and I wanted to experiment. They practically screamed “Use for Paddling!” they are now one of the most dreaded implements I have and have brought tears to my husbands eyes after only a brief spanking. He’s begged me not to use them when I’ve reached for one. brought the cane down again, just as hard as the first stroke. She aimed just slightly below the thin red line that had instantly Perhaps your really open to trying different things in your sex life, and even with that he still feels the need to be dominated by someone else. I'm not judging you, I just really don't understand it because I grew up in the 70's where this would never have happened. If somebody had tried this with my kid I would have followed them home and said "Right, you beat my kid and now I'm here to find out if you like a stranger abusing yours?" to get my point across. Of course I would not do anything but I think they would see where I was coming from.We were in the car, her sister was with us and I was spent from a long day of shopping with the two women. I wasn't doing a good job of hiding my attitude and got a couple of generic warnings or scolding from my wife. When I got mouthy and then rude my wife went off! But in response to your wife's sorority sisters, my wife had 2 high school girlfriends visit for a w/e (She'd known them for decades). At dinner they were speaking about relationships, husbands and pet peeves etc. My insisted about certain behaviors that I would never do or repeat, they were leery of her surety asking how did she know for sure I wouldn't do such and such?

I require inmates to count each of the first six strokes, aloud, in a nice clear voice, and also say “Thank you Madame” . If the prisoner fails to do this properly, within 10 seconds, the stroke is repeated. I am completely strict about this rule, so don’t forget to count! I do not require my prisoners to count after the first six strokes. I’ve found it’s impractical. They are always screaming too much by then'. I take a 15-minute break after the first eighteen strokes, because I like to have a cigarette and a glass of wine at that point.' He told Patrol Driver Wallace to bring him a buggy whip, and, arming the woman with the whip, he told her to march her husband into the station-house lobby and lay it on him until she got tired. The woman did so.It's okay. You've been a very naughty boy, and your loving wife had to punish you for it. I'm sure that this won't be the to his horror, the burning increased. The pain was intense - like a line of needles had been stabbed into his bottom. He gasped