The large estate had over a thousand detached houses as well as some flats and assisted living properties. The instrument to be used in administering corporal punishment shall be approved by the principal or designee". Joseph Smith had just turned fifty so he was eligible to live in the house his friend owned in a retirement villiage. I would have to explain the deep wound I carry from my father (and to some degree, my mother) without painting him as a monster, and especially without using the “A” word. Visuals can help your partner understand exactly what you’re asking for without your having to elaborate, Morgan says.

I thought that, perhaps, her husband might try to prevent further spanking after it began and he saw how much she was fighting to try to avoid the spanking, but, he said nothing and, I learned afterwards, approved of the spanking 100%.We had originally planned to spend a long holiday with his folks in Louisiana during the summer of 1950 but the threat of war that June had thrown our plans into disarray. So now that we’ve gotten to the bottom (LOL) of spanking, you may be better able to figure out if it is, or isn’t, your thing. During our more adventurous sex sessions we would sometimes use a sag bag (bean bag) on the living room floor – they are very good for support in a variety of positions, including spanking. Remember, as I was beaten by my brother, my mother watched and considered it a valuable teaching tool. But the other girls were good company – quite a few had been with her in the sixth-form at the public school up the road, so all in all things were OK.

In no time at all her bottom was red all over with darker plum coloured streaks that were raised in welts all up and down and across both parts of her hiney. Also, consider taking out any items in your pockets that may make it uncomfortable for your child to lie across your lap, and the same goes for your child. People can consult a trained spanking therapist for a session or learn how to safely carry out spanking therapy themselves with a partner. In theory, this teaching meant that corporal punishment was a duty undertaken in solemnity, an unpleasant task that was nonetheless necessary for the sake of guiding children to be well-rounded adults, able to act responsibly and functionally in the adult world, and not slaves to wanton impulses or selfish indulgence.I learned that even though they could afford it, Anita had not paid a utility bill when it was due, even though she had the check/addressed envelop in hand. Be sure you are not feeling angry during the spanking, as anger can make you hit too hard and thus increase your chance of causing injury or trauma to the child. Men traditionally receive spankings and women get whipped, with the number of strokes to be administered (always lightly) by the temple staff being decided in either case by the god Wang Ye and by burning incense and tossing two pieces of wood, after which all go home happily, believing their luck will improve.