The key is getting the right fit. You’ll need to have accurate measurements to find the right size chastity cage for you, and even then, everybody and every cage is different, so it’s normal to go through some trial and error. They’re designed to inhibit erection and orgasm and hand over control to the Key Holder in the ultimate form of orgasm control. Sometimes you’ll also see a measurement for the gap between the ring and the body, which can be useful if you have particularly large or high hanging testicles, but most of the time you won’t need to measure for this part. This measurement helps you find the right gap size for your chastity cage—the gap size is simply the distance between the bottom of the ring and the tube. This measurement is usually non-critical for most, but if you have larger-than-normal testicles or testicles that are tight and close to your body, you may find that cages with small gaps put uncomfortable pressure on your testicles.

Perhaps most importantly, you’ll be compromising on comfort. When you’re going to be wearing this device for hours, days or even weeks at a time, why not take the extra care to make sure it’s comfortable? Measure several times, at different times of day. Your penis naturally changes size throughout the day. Hold your flaccid penis in your hand at a 90 degree angle from your body (pointing straight away from you). Place the end of the tape measure against your pubic muscle, and lay it flat along the length of your penis.Don’t be afraid to try multiple cages. Finding one that fits well can massively enhance your chastity experience. If you masturbate alone every day, then you’ll probably want less sex. And when you do have sex, you might find be desensitized. You might even find it hard to cum. Generally wearing a chastity device does not hurt, but you shouldn’t always expect it to feel comfortable right away. It can take a some time to become used to it; both physically and mentally. Once you’ve become accustomed to wearing it at times it will sometimes feel as if the cage is “caressing” your penis. This can heighten arousal, and feels like you’re wearing your own personal “bondage cuddle”.

You might think that as long as your measurements are close then it should work out. You can get away with clothes that are slightly too big or too small, so why not chastity cages? But a poorly fitted chastity device can cause several problems. You have to remember these devices aren’t tested. They’re not medical devices, so there’s basically no science telling us if they’re safe or dangerous. Shaving your public hair can also help with this, and reduce the chance of pain for your hair being pulled by the cage.If it’s not comfortable to wear, but you want it on forever, ask yourself: “Is this worth losing my penis over?” This measurement is the circumference of your penis and scrotum. You need to divide this number by 3.14 to get the diameter. Similar to the penis and scrotum diameter, place the tape measure on top of your penis, but this time at the widest part of your glans (the head of the penis). Wrap it all the way around and note where it crosses over.

The beginnings of an erection will feel more like a nice “erotic pain” rather than being unbearably painful. The two most important measurements are the ring diameter, and the cage length. Diameter can also help with comfort but in the majority of cases if you choose the right length, the diameter will also be correct.There’s nothing hugely special about me. I’d describe myself as your typical modern, forward-thinking guy. I enjoy sports, staying healthy, love my family and friends, and have a satisfying career that pushes me to work hard so I can enjoy some of life's luxuries. Long term, absolutely not. Discomfort will turn into pain, and pain can turn into a medical emergency faster than you’d think. If you want to wear a cage for longer than a few hours, comfort and safety are the priority. So all in all it’s not worth looking for a cage you can keep on forever, at least in my opinion. Get one that fits without causing pain and leave it on until it starts to smell, then take it off to clean for a bit. Rinse and repeat. Literally. It depends. If you want something to wear on and off during scenes, then a bit of discomfort could be acceptable if that’s what you and your partner want. There are three of these clamps included with the cage, along with the usual pins and spacers. The anti-pullout feature is optional, though, so you can leave these off if you want to start slowly or simply want more freedom.