With power play it's also always important to factor in safety, consent and aftercare, so before you get started don't forget to factor in the following points: ✔️ Safety first A foot fetish involves a desire to worship feet through acts such as massage, kissing, and smelling. As professional dominatrix Goddess Aviva previously told Allure, it's an extremely common fetish. If your partner shares that they have a foot fetish, it may be initially jarring, but it's an opportunity for you to discuss a potentially exciting new part of your sex life together. (And, if you're into it, just think of all the foot massages headed your way!) 4. Anal Sex

To try it: If your desire is an encounter that focuses more heavily on sensuality, tell your partner you'd like to take things slower than usual the next time you have sex. Spend extra time on foreplay, and play around with trying to arouse each other by exploring one another's bodies in ways you normally wouldn't. Slowly building up to orgasms can draw out your pleasure, an add in that powerful element of sensuality that you're craving. Remember, fantasies are normal and healthy. Another sexual fantasy women have is to be dominated by their partner. They want to be told what to do and how to do it, while being restrained and having objects used on them by their partner. As odd as this sexual fantasy may sound, women tend to want to have food (such as whipped cream, caramel, chocolate sauce, ice cream, candy, or some other foods) drizzled and placed on them in various places. What happens next is their partner only uses their tongue and teeth to eat the food off of their body. 10) BDSM and domination

But I would suggest that the insights given by these stories – or more particularly by the commentaries each author makes and within which the stories are set – do afford valuable insights into women’s sexuality as it has developed over the past four decades. There are many varied reasons why people have sexual fantasies. The great thing about fantasies is they don’t always have to align with your real-life ethics as they are just a part of fun, and people indulge for a number of reasons including the following: ❤️ Sexual arousal Somewhere romantic like "a deserted beach is far away from chores, deadlines, or any responsibilities," says Bromley. "It's a place where a woman can just be in the present moment. There isn't anything waiting for her to do, she can just relax into the bliss." And what's sexier than that? Sexual fantasy can enhance every type of sex and works at every stage of your sexual encounters. Sexual fantasy stories can keep you focused during masturbation. Many people find it easier to orgasm when flying solo if their mind is focused on an audio story.

Just because you like the idea of being naked in front others doesn't necessarily mean you've got an exhibitionist streak. Remember, "fantasies permit us to engage in imaginary scenarios without real-world complications—like jealousy, hurt feelings, offending others, or even risking arrest," says David A. Levy, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and marriage and family therapist based in Los Angeles. Sexual fantasies are a common part of being a human. In a 2016 study, Dr. Nan Wise discovered that people's brains light up when they think about genital stimulation (which explains why some people can orgasm without physical touch of any kind). Sexual fantasy stories use your biggest sex organ (your brain) to help you focus on the accelerators and ignore all those breaks during masturbation or partnered sex.Depriving any one of your senses can heighten the rest, so something as simple as wearing a blindfold or switching off the lights can be remarkably sexy. If you can't see what your other half is up to it also adds a sense of excitement and power play to the proceedings. Experimenting with sound and touch deprivation can also be a real turn on, but novice kinksters should proceed with extreme caution before trying out breath-play, as this can have disastrous consequences. 10. Group sex

A sexual fantasy for women would also be the desire to want to have sex in new locations. Whether it’s in an elevator, parking lot, car, public bathroom, a park, pool, library, doctor’s office, at either one of your workplaces, or on a beach. Gag warning: Emetophilia is a sexual fetish in which one gets aroused by vomit. Yes, it's real, and it’s more common than you think. A lighter version of emetophilia may play out as finding it a turn-on if someone gags during a blow job. A higher octave version is simply getting wet for puke. 27. Klismaphilia Dubberley’s Garden of Desires, written almost exactly 40 years later, is a celebration of the earlier book and a homage to it in title, process and subject matter. It is also a step further on. It could never be as original and ground-breaking as Friday’s work simply because it was not the first. But coming second has allowed it to be insightful about female fantasy in a very different way. It views the topic in the context of the huge social changes in sexual freedom, family planning, reproductive health and the place of women in society that have happened during and since the Seventies in many – though, we must remember, not all – parts of the world. And, it draws on the increasing knowledge and insight gained by researchers, academics, essayists and bloggers who have studied female fantasy during the intervening decades.For the passion/romance/intimacy category, I looked at fantasies about romance, feeling loved or appreciated, feeling desired, pleasing a partner, and emotionally connecting with a partner. However, that should not stop you from exploring and trying new sexual acts which may deliver lots of pleasure for you and your partner. 3) Ravishment The mind is really the recipient of all the body's sensations. So there's this empirical evidence of a huge connection between the mind and pleasure," she said. If you’re one of those interested parties who has never done it before, you might want to start with smaller toys first and talking with your partner about the possibility of douching. Sensation play Through her research and other studies in the field, Wise has ultimately found that, "This distinction we make between the mind and body is really a very arbitrary one."