When we are kids, we want to be an adult because we believe if we are a ‘big’ person, we can do anything we want. We can choose to be liberated in life. That child’s mindset often stays too long in our memory. It makes us not accept the reality of growing up that brings us more responsibility than liberation. But, it teaches us many things. Sometimes, the problems come when we are not ready enough. “Have the courage to leave Bad things.”

Most importantly, kids live in the moment and take pride in knowing that even though the rest of the world may disagree, they still see this as a beautiful place with zero obligations. There is always a feeling of not being fulfilled, no matter how much you achieve, because the inner child’s needs are not being met.” – Yong Kang Chan, Parent Yourself Again: Love Yourself the Way You Have Always Wanted to Be Loved Jokes aside, it was most probably to grow up and be an adult already. How often do we hear children say “ When I grow up, I will…“. It’s as if adulthood is this long-awaited stage when everything will begin for us, finally. We wait for it so anxiously until it does happen, eventually. Of course, nobody can remain a child forever, such is the way of life. However, throwing your inner child away might be one of the biggest mistakes you can make! One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” – Albert Einstein Every child does that naturally. So we don’t have to learn nothing. We just need to drop our bundle of thoughts and beliefs from the child you’ve known the best: yourself.Kids don’t have much of the past, so they don’t need to stress over anything, they are always free from past and future.

In fact, a major part of grieving our original pain work (so that we can heal and be emotionally liberated) is to re-parent ourselves and reconnect with our inner child.” – Anonymous I agree, in this evil society, being grown up is complicated. Life is not like the rosy picture we thought it was when we were children. But seriously, it’s not a trap. Childhood is the most beautiful things to happen in our life. We can be happy with the simplest thing, our thoughts and expectations are simple. We take things very lightly, and we do not get hurt easily. But, when we are grownup we worry. Also, we face problems, failures, and humiliations that may damage us to the core.Y’all do not understand how good you have it in your teens/early twenties when it comes to metabolism! Yes some people have it hard when they’re young and some maintain that great metabolism when they’re older but the majority of us experience a drastic decline in metabolism sometime after 25. Mine happened around 28/29 and it was quite honestly the WORST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME. I’m dramatic, I know. It is honestly awful to go from eating whatever the hell you want and then waking up one day and realizing you can’t do that anymore. Hi, I’d like to Sleep In Again. Thanks. On that frustrating night, I was fretting about the worst performance of my whole day at an interview. I transferred all my irritation to my bike accelerator and zipped down the road at top speed. Suddenly, an old man was ahead waving his hand for lift. I stopped my bike roughly very close to him. He just looked up and smiled for a moment, then asked if I could drop him after two miles from here. Let us liberate ourselves from any form of control. Let us focus at the inner drum, where the rhythm aligns with that of our heart. The measure of responsibility, equals to the need for evolution. Just listen, the inner child, let it whisper in your ear.” – Grigoris Deoudis Either our inner child comes out to play and makes all things possible, or we mold our characters and events from our own experiences, or our dreams of wanting to experience.” – Judith Kohnen, One Chance, One Moment However, these damages, or problems will teach us many things. We have known sadness, joy, friendship, humiliations, failures, damage, and rejection that make us a mature person in mind but not by age or body. Overthinking problems will always drain your happiness. Don’t allow this attitude to drain your beautiful life. Learn to accept reality and motivate yourself to come out of your safe zone. Travel to new places. Help others. Then, you will be the Coolest person!

minutes ago I Help Seniors Get Health Care. Shouldn’t I Be Able to Afford My Own? President Biden needs to stand up for federal call center workers like my colleagues and me. Don’t like ads? Become a supporter and enjoy The Good Men Project ad free “Ready or not, you have no choice.” The eyes that sparkle in awe and amazement as they see love, magic and mystery in the most ordinary things.” – Henna Sohail Yes, grown-ups have commitments, that kids don’t have. But dwelling in the past or future does not help to perform any tasks or work.I’ve talked about how hard it is to make friends but it’s also hard to maintain friendships once you get older. Do y’all realize how good you have it in HS/College when it comes to friends? Well really when it comes to quite a lot of things but especially friends! You have built in people with pretty much your same exact schedule and priorities and no real responsibilities. This isn’t the case 100% of the time but it is a good 95% of the time and it’s AMAZING. That Metabolism Though… If by growing up you mean allowing the adult within me to abandon the child within me, I have no interest in such a horrid proposition. When we practice self-compassion, we look after ourselves just as though we are nurturing a small child. Ask yourself the following question: what is the thing you craved the most as a child? Well, apart from that toy you liked so much at the store. Fun fact, there is no exact path any of us should be on. There is such a myth that we should all have it figured out or have a family and kids by a certain time and that’s bullsh*t. We start to get older and begin feeling like we haven’t done something right and it’s terrible! Just remember, you are doing you and as long as you aren’t harming yourself or others, WHO CARES what people think about your path. Newsflash, No One Cares About You…