I’m grateful you are thoughtful, I’m grateful you are understanding, I’m grateful you are so much fun to be around, but most of all I’m grateful you are my wife. I love you! I always look forward to sharing special moments and big occasions with you. Those are the moments we will remember forever. But I also love sharing simple and quiet days with you. I love being together no matter what. I just simply love you.

I didn’t believe in love at first sight until I saw you. I just knew that we were going to be part of each other’s lives forever. Loving you is natural, and I want it to stay this way forever.Fast forward to not very long at all and my friend walks out on her husband, takes the kids, moves in with this guy, gets a divorce and spends the next forty years together until his death. He became the love of her life.

The only answer to the questions that arise in my mind, like, “Why do I miss you so much that it hurts?” is that I adore you and don’t want to spend a minute away from you. God blessed me with the perfect wife when He brought you into my life. My heart is filled with love for you. So now, I'm sitting here at work with a hard on thinking about tonight with my wife...good Lord how to women do that to us men?

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Maybe it’s time to offer some new and creative love messages for her to show how much she means to you. Whenever you are having a tough time, just think of me and know that I am thinking of you at that exact moment. Even when we’re apart, I am here for you. That’s why I’ve crafted some ideas for you that you can use as-is, or you can re-write them into your own words. If, in his mind, you having sex with someone else equals both the end of the marriage and the only way to make him happy - you can't win! He really needs to talk these conflicting desires out with a professional, and perhaps you should give him the time and space to do that, on his own, if he wants to. If he doesn't want to, then give him all the time he could possibly want to fester with his ridiculous no-win fantasies.

What matters now are your children, first and foremost, and dealing with ending this relationship safely and sanely for all of you. Because, by your own words, it is past saving.True love was once a mirage to me. I was not sure what it was until I met and fell in love with you. Now it is clear, and we share it every day. Some people say love hurts; but with you, I will gladly take every risk just to be with you and spend my life with you. I can’t envision a world without you in it. I love you dearly. I have kept saying “no” to his requests to try the "hot wife" lifestyle, and I tried my best to explain why I just couldn’t agree to having sexual relations with a stranger: I had never had a one-night-stand in my life, and had never been sexual with someone I didn’t know very well. After several rounds of that I added that his asking was making me feel disrespected, inadequate in the bedroom, and was damaging our marriage. Unbeknownst to me, he was out grooming other women to make this actually happen, and invited one over to my open house Christmas party, where our neighbors and the local alderman and his wife had stopped by. I was showing his "friend" around the house, and she got really close to me, and grinning like a fiend. Then she said, "so! Your husband said you wanted a threesome!"