In this practical and straightforward guide, you will learn specific principles that will help you to build more powerful relationships, stronger connections, and leave a positive, lasting impression on everyone you get in touch with. Most of them are common sense, but it's always good to have a reminder, because as they say "Common sense is the least common of all senses." How to become a People Magnet will give you the tools you need to achieve the results you have always desired and become great with people. Make this a habit. It will also do wonders for your mood as well. You’ll be surprised just how better you can make your life become just by being kind to others. Besides, if your mood is up, the way you treat other people is better. This will consequently help your goal to become a people magnet individual. Be more confident Standing Up for Your Friends The Green-Eyed Monster in My Closet Clause #26: My Personal Principles Clause

Just walking along the street In the showers at the gym Pass the envelope please. Well, “the showers at the gym” is definitely out if you want to keep your rep as a skirt chaser. The place men felt most comfortable giving or receiving a hug or hearing, “I love you, man” was in public.42 Researchers determined the reason for this is that public displays of affection between romantic partners is less appropriate in public than in private. So, counterintuitively, two males hugging in public seems the antithesis of romance. The best place, a study called “The Male to Male Embrace: B Connections are easily made just by doing this. The more people you connect with, the more sociable you will be. Others will see that too. Once it is seen and understood that you are someone who’s highly sociable, you’ll become a people magnet automatically. Employ a more optimistic mindset Don’t compete with people. If they compliment you for some good things you’ve done, do not start explaining to them some other greater things you’ve accomplished; When speaking with a man, I will cut the constant nodding and little supporters like “uh huh,” “yes,” “oh,” and other cooing noises. He’ll think I’m interrupting! (Imagine that.) I will get it into my head that if I just stand looking at him while he speaks, he’ll think I’m a great listener. For Women Only:For the sake of my health and my relationships, I will never again make negative remarks about my appearance, most especially my weight. Nor will I ever hide parts of my body from my man. If I think I’m beautiful, he will too. For Women Only:

If you do come across people who have different views, beliefs, and opinions than yours, remain open-minded and promote a positive and healthy discussion. Listen to their arguments and make them feel heard. All the while, make sure you make your beliefs heard as well. If you’re wondering how to get out of a funk and get motivated, this is one of the best ways to do it. 8. Tell Good Stories This Is Not a Book—It’s a Contract The first reason that How to Be a People Magnet is guaranteed to work is, it’s a contract—a very personal contract between you and the person you are most responsible to in life—yourself. The definition of a contract according to our dearly departed, but oft-quoted, Noah Webster is “a binding agreement usually between two or more persons or parties.” Since we all have “two or more persons” residing within ourselves, we’ll take liberties with two. Women, looking in the mirror, are continually having conversations like this one with themselves: You #1: Shall I wear these old jeans today? You #2: Nah, they make you look like a busted sofa!AMore Magnetic Attraction! The most obvious difference between a real smile and a sincere smile is timing. People Magnets’ smiles are slow, really slow. They flood over their faces. They seem to well up from somewhere inside their hearts and when their hearts are just too full from enjoying what their eyes behold, it spills out into a smile. A PM’s smile says, “Wow, I really like what I see.” What’s Your Optimism Quotient (OQ)? To find out precisely what qualities make people like us, the American Sociological Association conducted a vast study.12 The results? At the top of the list was having a positive optimistic personality and confidence in yourself. I’m sure you’ve seen the TV interviews with the athletes just before the tennis match, the football game, the wrestling match. The reporter asks the player, “Do you think you’re going to win?” She replies, “Definitely.” In another interview, he asks her opponent the same question and her answer is the same, “Absolutely.” Or a reporter asks a boxer, “Are you going to win?” He replies, “I’m-a gonna kill da mudder fudder.” Then he asks the contender the same question. He answers, “Ha! I ain’t gonna swap leather for In his new book How to become a People Magnet international bestselling author and personal development consultant Marc Reklau reveals the secrets and psychology behind successful relationships with other people. This is easier said than done, of course, especially if you’re someone who isn’t natural when it comes to being optimistic. While this is the case, it is something you’ll need to force yourself to do. Not only will this make you become a people magnet, but it will also help your mental well-being more stable and positive. Be relatable In this practical and straightforward guide, you will learn specific principles that will help you to build more effective relationships and stronger connections and leave a positive, lasting impression on everyone you get in touch with.