Craziest thing ever was tearing my foreskin during sexual intercourse and not knowing which of us was bleeding after climax as the pleasure masked the pain for about 10 seconds. She treats me like a toy. She’ll plop her crotch or ass on my face and wriggle around for 30 minutes. “Good boy!” She says as she climbs of leaving me bound again. The rare time I get to have an orgasm is usually by a torturous hand job. We all like to try new things – some of us more than others – and often we’re left with memories we tend to keep to ourselves. Most extreme thing I did was take GHB and let my ex and her mate strap-on me while we were all off our faces and drunk.’ The one with the older woman…

For most of my adult life I have found that when I am in a relationship for quite a while then I become fixated on the idea of sharing my partner with other men. The vehicles being a very safe place to be we kept going. With the sound of alarms and explosions we continued to go at it as though the world were about to end. Took the blindfold off midway to see that the other two women were her cousin and her best friend. I was then untied and allowed to continue on into a dominant role. My ex decided she wanted a four-way, promised me it was other women, and that all would be a surprise. I know if I let myself succumb to my own desires, I get pulled into a spiralling circling of thoughts and actions that led me to make decisions that placed my wife’s health and my health in danger.It’s why my confession is a crazy twist in a way. See? I didn’t want to save our marriage. I didn’t have any interest in how we looked to our friends. I’m not proud of these experiences, some were good and fun, some I put myself into danger, and all in all I carry a lot of shame. I’ve had partners just shut that down and say its not their thing (I’d never try to be pushy about this kind of thing) and others who’d be up for dabbling. With my wife, as we have been together for 10 years, it has been something that is “there” for ages. Picture: Ella Byworth for Metro.co.uk) The one whose experience happened during a time of alcoholism… Story #1: My husband and I have a large chunk of time apart coming up, so mid-September we took a weekend away for just the two of us, and I was able to do a few things from September’s Dare! To prepare for the weekend, I did go out and buy some fun lacy panties! I DID NOT ask to turn the lights off and we kept them on during our times of physical intimacy. It was really hard to not apologize for my body and tried to be bold/confident instead! I really wanted to feel connected and relaxed with my husband, and our weekend was just that! We didn’t want it to end… now I have a hard time sharing my husband with my kids again, ha ha! Oh, and I did bring some lingerie, but we decided to stay in our room the whole time and not wear clothes! So fun! ~ A.W.

Story #5: Love the September dare. The old panties are gone and he loves to look at me in some of my smoking hot Victoria’s Secret lingerie. I feel sexy and he tells me how beautiful I am – it’s a win-win. Sex with the lights on is always a blast. We have Hue LED lights that we can make any colors. We will make love under deep crimson, or rich lavender, or golden sunset. We highly recommend that! Keep up the great work! ~ M.D.I was with men, women, men and women at the same time, with cross-dressers, and have cross dressed myself. My wife and I had driven for about six hours before getting there and she’d been teasing me by saying things she knew would turn me on and by rubbing my penis.

She has always been keen on the idea but sensibly wary about damaging a relationship. In the beginning it was “this is just a fantasy, we shouldn’t risk it”. Well, I was at University in Leicester and was seeing a girl, who I’ll call Sally, who was, like me, studying Maths. Squirter until I met him behind my parents and let him gag me with my own panties so my parents wouldn’t hear me orgasm. We’d had some heavy petting my last night in the medical centre but it was too risky to go further as the Doc and the medics slept in there. Story #7: For the September contest, I did a combination of the 3rd idea (doing a previous dare) and 11th idea (praying for our sex life). I’ve had a previous dare printed out and ready to go for months now but never initiated it because of feeling a little vulnerable about it. We got through half the dare and it was a lot of fun! Afterwards, we blessed our sex life together. It felt like a fun way to mix things up, especially for the season we’re in of trying to conceive. I also think that this experience will help me feel more confident in initiating some of the dares in the future. ~ A.F.

So any relationship was a military crime on two levels, she was an officer, I wasn’t. She was a nurse and I a patient. I hooked up with a guy and we went to the park after opening hours. I was f***ing him in the trees when we realised there were loads of men in the bushes watching us.’ And finally: The one who broke his penis…