I never want to fall out with my neighbour, as I know I'll never find a better one - nor a better wife. He doesn’t mention it often (especially not nowadays because we’re hermits and his job has some long hours), but if he went out to a bar with friends, he’ll tell me about flirting and girls/guys hitting on him. Let me catch my breath … Kept me guessing the entire time … I loved this book … Absolutely stellar … It should vault to the top of your TBR list. For instance, here (although Im a bit murky on the timeline here due to the letter’s general jealousy-staining-all-and-kinda-loose-on-time) she says he was transparent but then says that he told her about it because another neighbor saw them in the garden to husband told LW about it.

I don’t THINK she is interested in him that way, but what is now becoming an issue for me is that he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings by telling her she doesn’t need to come over while I’m not home.

Okay kumquats, you all know the LW would not be reaching out if it wasn’t for the slag next door, who really has zero business showing up when LW isn’t around. I have seen this before and the fact that Wendy fails to put these things together tells me there is a lack of experience in this area. I always think of married men as unavailable and therefore assume they know I’m not interested in them in any way beyond a friendship. I was happy to do the cooking and cleaning, and although we both had careers in teaching, Jan had a more senior position and was the main breadwinner.

Wendy gives some good alternative suggestions, another is to help get your husband out of the house more often. Tell him how you feel bc he’s not a mind reader… tell that woman next door to mind her own business, politely. Each of those things by themselves might not amount to much but all of combined adds up to something. At least the LW’s husband hasn’t already checked out and appears to be trying to make his marriage work.

OMG you were SO JUDGING of this woman who’s in distress, and you point ar her, when she’s got a valid point. Also, please understand that your husband communicating to you that he needs pleasant companionship is NOT some silly bored old man business and that he just needs to “get busy. Clearly, they worried I would get hurt again and could not understand why I would want him so close.

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Finally, I’d suggest taking some of the focus you’re putting on this neighbor lady and re-directing it toward your husband. He said she told him she would like to start helping him in the garden, when I’m not there I’m sure. I’m not saying that he is cheating for sure, but I think it is understandable for you to be cautious. Both have new partners, Ben and Carol, respectively and each have a child, Toby and Mo, along with Ben's teenager daughter, Ruby. You need more info from the lady before you speak else you come off as a ridiculer rather than a wise person.It's a compelling read with twists galore, some of them beyond belief, but making the story all the more intriguing. STARZ and LIONSGATE+ are available across digital OTT platforms and multichannel video distributors, including cable operators, satellite television providers, and telecommunications companies around the world. Body language expert explains Meghan Markle's 'proud reason' behind placing her hand on Prince Harry's chest. The Wife Next Door is set on the Isle of Man, Jess and Rob's home throughout their childhood, it's a place where everyone knows you and your business, so when they split and then decide to set up home next door to each other, you can imagine what some of the community think, it's a disaster waiting to happen, right?