Habit four is all about creating a win-win situation. Covey describes the significance of a win-win situation that leads to mutual benefit because if one side gets the edge over the other, it creates a win-win situation that is good for one side but bad for the other. The Habit Of Winning is by Prakash Iyer. which is blissful to read after exactly 10 years ago In fact, even in 1984 this phrase seemed a little to smarmy, and the author himself comments on this fact in this quote: When it’s clear that two parties have entirely different goals, it can save a lot of problems to forgo a deal. The relationship can be kept healthy to collaborate on something different in the future.

Prakash Iyer's style is direct and simple. He has touched various aspects of life, with an emphasis on leadership. This will keep you from becoming too comfortable. Because comfortability breeds mediocrity. Winners stay uncomfortable. Recharging your battery through meditation and being in nature. Monitoring your spending habits. Saving money. Investing money. Hiring people smarter than them to help them get ahead in life like accountants or financial planners. They master themselves through these habits. They know that it is a drag sometimes hiring people, saving when they want to spend and exercising when they could sit on the couch.It is far better to stay optimistic and positive about the outcomes. See yourself making that shot as your take it. Know that you are doing the best you can on the project, and the boss will love it. See yourself reaching your goals, plan to avoid obstacles and visualize your success. 4. Use Your Power of Self Determination The practice is often dull. And that’s why people choose the easy way and get satisfied with small results. Overcoming Fear of Judgment:Embracing failure means overcoming the fear of judgment and criticism. Successful people are not overly concerned about what others may think of their failures. Instead, they focus on their vision and the lessons they can glean from their experiences. Winning is not about materialism, or simply about sport. It is about finding your success in life, whtever that may be. It may be about finindg happiness. I may be about achieving a peaceful mind. It is about being a success in the life you desire and working to achieve all your goals.

To help you keep a positive, growth mindset, surround yourself with the right people who will serve as your support group. You can lean on them and ask for advice when you’re shaken. And you can return the favor by sharing lessons from your own experience. These kinds of relationships, developed over time, are reminders that you need like-minded people in your life. 2. Determine your life goals. One of the things that made me very happy when reading this book is the emphasis that Waitley puts on habits.For example, if your goal for your hard work is to spend time with your family. Visualize the vacation you are working toward. Having concrete goals like this gives you something to work for that is more exciting than simply completing the annual TPS report.