Unfortunately, the tendency that worked so well when it came to spreading humanity across the face of the planet can turn out to be a problem in a modern loving relationship. They fasten about the waist or hips, and carry a firmly fixed shield or tube that prevents access to the penis.

The author establishes that Chastity often comes from the husband and might express some hidden submissive nature. With a less submissive male (in other words, one who had to be persuaded to accept you as his keyholder, or who reluctantly agreed to experiment with the idea), you may wish to be a little more careful; you don’t want to keep him locked up to the point where he begins to feel unappreciated, resentful or hard-done-by.So rather than depriving him of liberty and treating him cruelly, you are providing something that he wants and needs: the feeling of being controlled, teased, aroused and frustrated by the device, and by you. Tube-Type Devices A tube-type device will not normally need to be custom-made (though several manufacturers offer a custom service). So relax, and empower your chastened man to meet as many of your needs as possible; that’s exactly what he craves to do. The devices sometimes come with different-sized rings, and possibly include spacers that can be inserted to improve the fit.

In other words, what’s not in it for you right now: ● Do you spend a lot more time and effort pleasing him, than he spends pleasing you? Here’s a well-known example: for the most chivalrous and adventurous of King Arthur’s knights, putting life and limb on the line in the service of some fair damsel was almost a lifestyle choice .The Chastened Male Presuming that you keep your man in chastity for all or most of the time, what does that mean to your day-to-day relationship? If that were true, it would be a very bad idea indeed: using sex in this way can never be a positive act. See the section Beyond the Bedroom for information on some of the wider changes that male chastity can usher in, if you so desire.