I’m not sure how long the ordeal lasted, but Vera had fully and completely paid homage to Lucille at her disciplinarian-best before she finally stopped. Kent came to see me right after I sent Lincoln on his way and it was his first visit with me. He was a little nervous (like you all are) but we sat and chatted for awhile until his jitters calmed down then I went into action. Kent prefers an OTK with my hand and then the wooden implements so I made sure he was warmed up to a heated pink fanny before I went to the wood pile. Read more in my member’s section. The imperious demand: “What do you think you are doing?” suddenly snatched me from my reverie. “You were told to clean this place up!” Vera had entered the room without my noticing.

When I completed my writing assignment and signed my name, Vera reviewed it and nodded with satisfaction. Subs enjoy only clearly specified sensations. Like everyone else, even the most submissive subs hate dog bites, sprained ankles, or street assaults. They crave only what they personally enjoy. Actually, I was hoping we could chat for a bit. Is your room okay?” Natalie asked, smiling so that Jill could see this wasn’t necessarily a “break-up talk.” One-quarter (27%) said their preferred pain propelled them into a trance-like altered state involving deep relaxation, almost mystical contentment, a sensation of floating outside their bodies achieving oneness with the universe. Subs have a word for this—“subspace.” “It’s meditative.” “I feel all floaty and spacey.” “I go on ‘vacation’ mentally to a place where I feel everything but nothing hurts.”

Why Submissiveness Can Bring Pleasure

Time outs. A time out should last roughly 1 minute for each year of age (e.g. 2-minute time outs for a 2-year-old). To many American women, a spanking was the fruit not of charming adoration but domestic tyranny. Sometimes these spankings were precipitated by violent behavior on the part of the wife—but just as often it was for her failure to be a docile servant. Making up. Have the child make amends if they wronged someone. For example, if your son said something mean to his sister, ask him how he could make it up to her by doing something nice for her. Offer suggestions if your child is struggling to think of something (e.g. "you could make her a card"). For what seemed like the longest time, I stood there dumbfounded, staring at this diminutive but imperious female before me. It was a week after the funeral when I finally mustered the courage to enter Lucille’s study, to search for the discipline agreement I wrote all those years ago. Lucille had a growing business in commercial accounting that she ran out of our home. She left her business to her younger sister, Vera, who was doing similar work, and I did not want Vera to happen inadvertently upon our discipline agreement when she searched through Lucille’s business accounts and records. That was a part of our relationship I would not want to share with anyone, and most certainly not with Vera.

Well, this is something that was going to come up eventually so I’m sure you’ve thought about it a time or two. But you know the kind of relationship that Cora and Emery have? The…different aspect of it?” Natalie said, pausing. Jill only nodded, a slight blush appearing across her cheeks. Well yes, maybe it does. But I believe spankings are more helpful for adults. I don’t believe in spanking kids. Just little brats like yourself” Natalie said, squeezing the girl in a tighter hug. Jill snuggled close and smiled. As the bottom listing indicates, the idea of spanking a woman was so popular that some studios would release publicity photos of spankings even when no such activity occurred in the movie—even when the characters barely interacted. When the spanking did occur, it frequently appeared on ads. Beyond just being pleasurable, spanking can also be connected to memories, a psychological theory known as ‘imprinting’ (no, not in the way it’s described in the Twilight books). That’s true. Do you think I should have the conversation with her alone or would it be helpful for you two to be there?”Classical conditioning is a type of behaviourism that falls within this area, and acts an automatic response to prior learning – i.e. the spanking can be linked to something you’ve experienced in the past. Hey, come on in! I don’t know what you wanna do today, but I haven’t managed to come up with anything” Jill said, shrugging. I can’t, can’t I?” Vera said, a glint of purpose in her eye. “Shall we put that statement to the test?” You can’t,” I cried. “I’d never live it down. My boss would never understand, and my friends would think I was a wimp if they knew Lucille had been spanking me over her knee like a child all these years.” Removal of privileges. For example, if your child keeps pushing people while playing, take the toy away for now and tell them why.