Punishments are the other side of the coin. You’ve agreed to terms. But say you are feeling slightly bratty or maybe you forget (as a sub) what you have agreed to. There are consequences for these behaviors. Maybe it’s early in the relationship and you are given a task. As a sub, your Dom may require proof that you have completed the task when you are out of his presence. Failure to complete the task will result in punishment. As a submissive, when I hear these things, it helps me relax. It helps me trust. It helps me see myself the way my Dom sees me. I want to please him, and when I please him, he rewards me. And that thrills me more than anything. He has me and it makes me want to do more to please him. I’m delighted and fulfilled when he is happy with me. Clothes- Find something that you like her to wear and surprise her with it when she is following a rule. You could start with lingerie and tell her that she will get the complete outfit as she continues to comply with the rules. Oh My Gosh, I am so glad I was not a girl all my life. I feel sorry for the poor girl that has really bad periods like this. Now that my monthly periods have started I hope that Auntie Flo is kind to me and I never have a period like this again. A normal period will be terrible if it is 1/2 as severe as this. The instruments you choose to use for punishment should be comfortable for you to handle. Naturally, as your experience grows, so will your collection, but for now we will only discuss the basic items to start you off.

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I don’t know what got over me. I am really sorry Jody. I promise.. I will never do this again.” I answered, almost about to cry. If you feel the least bit sorry for him during all this, remember, a submissive man does not want a weak or lenient woman. He wants someone very strict and dominant. If he wanted anything different, he wouldn’t be over your knees in the first place. This isn’t a small child you are holding over your lap by force — this is a grown man who needs and wants a hard spanking. Give it to him and pay no attention to his cries for mercy. The longer and harder you spank, the more he will love you for it. It started on our honeymoon 36 years ago. I remember my dad spanking my mom from time to time, and both of my parents spanked me and my twin sister quite often on the bare bottom. So I thought it was natural. My wife likes it that I dress up as a maid and clean the house for her. How can i convince her to give her maid a good sound spanking over her knee? Few people know — not even professing Christians — that the Bible, when correctly translated, clearly teaches that a wife “ought to have authority OVER her head,” meaning over her husband. Furthermore, as her servant we read that “discipline is needed”! And that is the truth.Speech Restrictions- The submissive is not allowed to talk to the Dominant. For me, this would be a very painful punishment. I need a voice and to be unable to speak to him would be very painful. Okay, I won’t tell them but from now on you have to do as I say.” She said. “Fine, just don’t tell them. I will do anything Jody, please.” I said hopelessly. “You better get changed now. Mom’s going to be home soon.” Jody said with a smile, knowing that I was completely under her control. A dose of corporal punishment should have a dual effect. It should be extremely painful while it is being applied, and the area it was applied to should remain very tender for a period of time afterwards. Corporal punishment should always be supported with clear and precise description of why the punishment is being done. I call this lecture and it adds an important component to the experience.

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Forget flimsy frillies - you're going to submit to much sturdier material for my amusement, suffering reinforced seams and unforgivingly stiff panels that will make no allowances for your manhood. From the broad straps that I want to see stretched over your shoulders to the similarly stern elastic of serious suspenders, you'll be held in the uncompromising grip of traditional brassières and panty girdles, every garment I expect you to wear proving punishingly emasculating. Yet in exchange for your submission, I'll play with you, making your shapewear still more uncomfortable while you're girdled for me. Buy your copy now! Withholding orgasm- The submissive will not be allowed to have an orgasm for a certain period of time. Nobody would know a thing! Some time passed, and I was still doing it. It was so exciting that I wanted to try to push the envelope, and do something more daring. So I waited for a good time when nobody else was home, and went into Jody’s closet. I dug through all the things on hangers, until I found one of her blouses that might fit me. She didn’t wear it too often (I didn’t think), so she wouldn’t notice it. And there was a red plaid skirt that she used to wear to school, but didn’t anymore. What if you want to try and avoid the rule breaking and consequences all together? For me, punishment creates fear. The last thing that I want to do is have fear of my Dominant. Sometimes punishments are necessary, but you don’t have to always use that as your go-to. Rewards can go a long way to getting the submissive to stay in line. At least it works for me. You will have to dress up like a girl and pretend to be a girl. You will only wear girl’s stuff from now. I know you want to. So, it will be fun for you too.Many times, a Dominant will use small tasks to test a submissive’s willingness and ability to obey. When the Dominant sees how the submissive responds to these tasks, they have a better idea of whether they want to continue the relationship and/or how much training the submissive will require. As a submissive, the why for a rule being in place or why I am being given some, what I think is, a random task is very important to me. I happily comply with small, seemingly insignificant tasks. The Dominant should explain why menial tasks are assigned or why they are required. When the submissive understands the purpose, they will be happier to comply. The results of this assignment. It did not make me feel better, in fact my cramps got worst and I had to go the bathroom twice in 1 1/2 hours at the mall. I did bring pads and tampons as directed. I would rather have stayed home in bed. Once the punishment is completed, aftercare is critical for the mental well-being of the submissive. The punishment is meant to hurt so that the undesired behavior doesn’t happen again. Aftercare reassures the sub that they are still cared for. The aftercare after punishment is not the same as aftercare after a scene. There should be some reassurance to the submissive to remind them they aren’t bad, they are still loved. Avoiding shame triggers is a vital part of protecting the submissive’s emotional and mental health.

Your Guide to Submissive Punishments - Sofia Gray Your Guide to Submissive Punishments - Sofia Gray

There are many men who entertain fantasies of being dominated by a forceful woman all their lives yet would not dare ask their wife to spank them for fear of her reaction. If your husband has asked you to try a woman-in-charge relationship and you have agreed, you have more going for you than many so-called “perfect” marriages. This article contains some useful ideas and perspectives. But, you will eventually learn the most on your own.

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Oh, sorry,” she said. She relaxed her grip. “Is that better?” She gave it a little rub, and I just gulped, and nodded ‘yes!’