That’s the best thing about little sisters: They spend so much time wishing they were elder sisters that in the end they’re far wiser than the elder ones could ever be.”—Gemma Burgess Your narcissistic sister loves drama, and she feels powerful when she can successfully manipulate people and situations. She can manage to sow such disruption that she can, in fact, tear the family apart. You may be as different as the sun and the moon, but the same blood flows through both your hearts. You need her, as she needs you.”—George R.R. Martin

One’s sister is part of one’s essential self, an eternal presence of ones’ heart, soul and memory.”—Susan Cabil What are sisters for if not to point out the things the rest of the world is too polite to mention.” ―Claire CookIt can be difficult to defend yourself because you sound like you’re the one with the problem. She puts you on the defensive in a way that makes it difficult to rebut her accusations.

Even if you’re with her, if it benefits her to throw you under the bus, she will do it in a New York second. She is only concerned about her own image, and she expects that you should understand that. Thanks for the article, for years I had been thinking about whether or not my sister counted as narcissistic. We didn’t grow up in an easy household but especially later on after all was done we were grown-up things just kept on repeating in some vicious circle that always involved her. Sisters are best friends, they are advisors, they are teachers, and best of all they are people with whom you can talk with about anything—someone you have a special bond with!”—Catherine PulsiferIn case of my mother’s passing, she has assigned a third party to manage anything involving inheritance because (and my sister says she doesn’t want anything) we both fear of what song she will play whenever that happens. I am so glad I managed to rid myself out of that everlasting storm. Reply

This might mean that your parents were more lenient with your sister, or if they are abusive, they may have treated her differently than you for various dysfunctional reasons. Another factor that comes into play here is what may have happened in your early life as opposed to what happened in hers. Handbook of Adolescent Psychology, Contextual Influences on Adolescent Development, Laurence Steinberg, PhD– 2009 p 61 My other sister and I have born the brunt of her smear campaigns and she has accused both of us of being “uneducated drug addicts”, “failures”, and “psychopaths”. She even made hysterical visits in the night to other family members claiming that I threatened to rape and murder her (which did NOT happen BTW). I’ve had some of her flying monkeys – including one or two of those family members – confront me and almost physically assault me for “being such a horrible brother and human being” and “trying to disown her.” One flying monkey made a series of posts in a local social media group claiming I am illegitimate and claiming he had proof…..which was something he never provided. At times, other family members have also been the subject of her smear campaigns if they failed to do her bidding or have run afoul of her in any way. If you're moving money saved in previous tax years, you can choose to move all or part of it to a new Isa without affected your Isa allowance for the current tax year.Narcissists are experts at playing different roles and wearing different masks to get what they want, so watch out for this (6). 8. She uses triangulation to alienate you Read our article “ Why do Narcissists get jealous?” to read more about this topic 7. She changes how she behaves around different people She thinks she is the superior sibling and is therefore entitled to all of your parent’s attention, a better job, a better partner, a better family…a better everything.

Sisters are the people we practice on, the people who teach us about fairness and cooperation and kindness and caring—quite often the hard way.”—Pamela Dugdale Whether you have a severely narcissistic sister or a milder one, this post will provide you with support and guidance. You are not alone! 8 Typical Signs and Behavior of a Narcissistic Sister The life consecrated through the profession of the evangelical counsels is a stable form of living by which the faithful, following Christ more closely under the action of the Holy Spirit, are totally dedicated to God who is loved most of all, so that, having been dedicated by a new and special title to His honor, to the building up of the Church, and to the salvation of the world, they strive for the perfection of charity in the service of the kingdom of God and, having been made an outstanding sign in the Church, foretell the heavenly glory. Narcissists don’t just want to be treated well and given things they need and desire; they feel entitled to that kind of treatment. They believe it is the duty of everyone around them to give them what they want when they want it. Recently she called her granddaughter and berated her for not communicating. My great niece is 18, and the most loving person in our family. She’s away at college and called her mom in tears over what my idiot sister said to her. Now she’s hiding from my niece (her daughter) because she’s a coward.For years, she has felt above the rest of the family due to having an extensive college education, perceived superior intellect, and work experience (many of the jobs she has either quit due to “being called elsewhere” or has gotten herself fired for bad behavior on the job). If your sister is in a tearing hurry to go out and cannot catch your eye, she’s wearing your best sweater.”―Pam Brown this is a sure sign she is using triangulation to ensure you don’t unite with other family members against her.