The initial stand of being unfaithful is never a rational decision. It is a result of a person’s emotional circumstances and problems in his or her relationship. Most of the people are surprised at their own actions as a cheating spouse. I was actually a little frightened as I nodded my agreement. “Yes Karen.” I said as she stared down at me. She took a deep breath, then sat up.

I stammered for a moment, then managed to say. “I didn’t know.” Of course she asked me “Didn’t know what?”. The embarrassment that flood through me was unbelievable, but I forced myself to answer her. I’m sure these facts are convincing enough to be cautious of a cheating spouse. Cheating wife signs are difficult to spot at the initial stage, so let me give you a brief about the signs that can be noticed right at the initial stage of infidelity. Talking to your closest friends and family about your husband’s desire to wear panties isn’t fair. You’re exposing something really personal about him that he will probably want kept private. If you do need to talk it through with someone, I recommend a qualified therapist or a great relationship coach. They can help you work through your feelings without ‘outing’ your husband. 6. Think about things that used to be stigmatized that are normal now A few years ago he began encouraging me to do so even at my work. I work in a small office where there are just a few girls and all the rest are men, my boss included. Ironically he's the biggest perve of them all, and I think he has deliberately relaxed the dress code for us girls because of it. Let's just say 'nothing' is too short! He regularly compliments me on what I wear, especially if it's really 'short', making it all too clear about what he likes. And though he's always looking at my legs and stealing glances up my skirt, he's otherwise actually totally harmless, and his personality makes for a fun atmosphere to work in that I have to admit that I rather enjoy.

I don’t know why, but I put my smooth nylon covered feet through that slip then pulled up up around my middle while Karen slipped something into the cups of my bra. “This will help fill out that bra of yours!” She exclaimed playfully, kneading the now protruding mounds with her fingers several times. Don’t try to force yourself to be turned on by your husband wearing panties if that’s not how you actually feel. It’s important that you accept him for who he is and validate that his feelings are real and acceptable, but that doesn’t mean that you have to share them. The above story has been derived from a posting on the Internet, but has been rewritten. It is presumed that this story is a fantasy and does not reflect reality. All identifying information has been changed or deleted.

Richards, C., & Barker, M. J. (2015). The Palgrave Handbook of the Psychology of Sexuality and Gender . Palgrave Macmillan. Don’t you get excited thinking about being forced to wear girls clothes all weekend?” She asked knowingly. After I replied that it did she asked me if I wanted her to do that to me and once again I answered positively. Then she asked, well more like stated. “Thinking about me making you into my little slave-girl really turns you on doesn’t it!” She laughed when I admited that it sounded exciting. My son was completely passed out drunk, dead to the world. I was sure he would not notice anything and his wife would probably not either, so I reached over and put my hand on her pussy. Now you understand some of the reasons that he might want to wear your panties, let’s look at how you can deal with it. 1. Remember that this isn’t about you

MY WIFE KAREN

My husband and I made a pact 21 years ago that we would never wear underwear again. At first it was difficult for me to get through the work day, but it started by making Mondays and Fridays panty-free (and weekends of course). Before long, I no longer even owned a pair of panties. Even then, however, it’s helpful to remember that his fantasies and fetishes are entirely his. They don’t say anything about you or your ability to be a good wife and partner. 2. Understand how you feel about it

Some men enjoy wearing women’s clothing as part of a preference for sexual submission, but that’s far from certain. I’ll talk more shortly about how and why he might find wearing panties arousing, but submissiveness is only one of many possible options. Finally, he might not think that there’s any big deal about what kind of underwear he wears. He might borrow your panties if he runs out of clean underwear because he genuinely doesn’t see any good reason not to. My Husband Wears Panties: How to Deal Some gay men do enjoy wearing women’s clothing, but so do lots of straight men. Research shows that the majority of men who enjoy wearing women’s clothing identify as completely straight. [1] 2. It doesn’t make him a ‘pervert’ As my wife I expect you to be wearing feminine girls panties from now on!” She said, adding. “All the time just like a real girl!” She smiled at me. “And whenever your home I expect you to be dressed like a sissy in a dress or skirt and blouse and a bra and panties and a slip, nylons and high heels!” She said, her stern voice not leaving any room for discussion. More likely, he felt comforted when he wore women’s underwear so he kept doing it. Despite the initial connection to his mother, he now finds panties comforting because he has a long association between wearing them and feeling comforted. 6. It feels exotic, forbidden, and sexy

Hello ladies, I am putting this up here, as I am too embarrassed to talk to my female friends/relatives about this. Your input would be highly appreciated.

I’ve already shown you that there can be lots of possible reasons for your husband choosing to wear women’s panties. Assuming that you know what wearing panties means to him risks misunderstandings.If he’s more interested in wearing your panties and in wearing panties of his own, he might be trying to feel closer and more connected to you. You probably wouldn’t feel the same about wearing his sweaty boxers, but what about his favorite sweater? Don’t you feel closer and more connected to him when you borrow it? This picture and many similar photos have apparently disappeared from the Internet withing the past month You could say “I know that this is important to you so I really want to understand. I’m not trying to be intrusive but I’d love to know what you feel emotionally when you wear panties.” 5. This can (and usually should) stay private