Then there’s the question of control. Although the progress companies like We-Vibe and Lovense have made in their smartphone or computer software, a sizable number of people find controlling them to be confusing, awkward, or simply not to their liking.

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Newsweek is committed to challenging conventional wisdom and finding connections in the search for common ground. If you ever get a chance to playtest each of these toys, you’ll immediately realize that the Dolce clearly edges out its competition when it comes to flexibility. Poco is designed to mimic human fingers. Just bend and shape it to put the vibration exactly where you need it. Alice Chase This couple's vibrator offers sensations for both partners during sex. It has unique touch receptors on the toy that respond to your movements, which control the vibrations as you play together. When you touch or move against the sensor, the vibration level changes.

It’s the Dolce does all that, aside from the stuff-that-comes-with-it, of course: hands down beating the Chorus in how it works, what it does, how it’s made, its software, and finally its all-important flexibility.

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Though they are wireless and intelligent sex toys, there’s a smidgen of difference in their software, as We-Vibe’s is exclusively smartphone-based while Lovense’s has an Apple or Windows computer version, and for iPhone or Android users. If you’re looking for toys that come as close to simulating the real experience as possible, this his-and-her set from Kiiroo (which created the technology in the Esca 2 as well) is about to blow your mind. The Chorus is a couples toy, but I use this (and the Sync) solo. I’m not sure if it will work well with intercourse, and others have tested it as such, but I am not able to do so. That’s okay! You’ll get my solo review, and you’ll like it. (Or not. Whatever; you do you.) The We-Vibe Chorus comes in a beautiful box with a peach-purple gradient, and the product depicted in a gold outline. In the world of sex toys, We-Vibe’s couples vibrators are iconic, and not just because these wearable devices happen to be powerful (although that is a major perk).Both the Sync and the Chorus work with the We-Vibe app, which is amazing for long-distance couples because it allows you to control the toy from wherever you are in the world via Bluetooth (and WiFi or cell service). Within the app, you can also video chat, message each other, create vibration playlists set to your favorite music, and more.