Probably because he wasn't sober before this, and I hadn't done anything to show him I was through with ignoring his problem. My best friend stepped in to help take care of the house, the baby, the cat and she helped herself to my husband.

He was upset with me, because before I left, I casually arranged for my mom to babysit our kids because I couldn't trust him alone with our children. I know that I can't make him do anything, he doesn't want to, and since he doesn't want to help himself, there is no way to get through to him.And if that's what you resort to, beware of multi-platform/device games, you might have to take away ALL his devices.

Looking at his post had me thinking that he must be so lonely and would react instantly to someone who gave him attention. In fact, this approach can sometimes backfire and lead to even more inappropriate behavior because kids with nothing, have nothing to lose.This insane presidential election we are having in the United States - how he would have loved to discuss it with me.

You guys are probably more of an expert here, is it right for someone to lose access to ten things when he or she have worked for 9 and stolen only the last one? I have done what I wanted to do - and what I still work on - shifting the balance so I can have a greater number of productive and happy moments. Sorry that you had to experience that, Brenda but in your case, these women didn’t succeed in wrecking your mariage.At any moment his job could find out without me saying anything at all and we would still be in the same situation. My favorite question to ask people is "With all the pain you are experiencing now - was it worth it? I often tell parents that if you know for sure that your child has stolen something, act with that knowledge. com/GriefSpeaksOut) which has over a million likes and provides support to people all over the world.