Now, here are 15 legendary tips for mastering your partner's pleasure zones, as well as some moves you'd probably be better off avoiding. I was 15 years old when I first felt a woman's breast. As a freshman in high school, I had been dating T., who was 14, for a couple of weeks. We had made out a few times, and the chemistry was building. Your sex toys don't have to be nipple-specific to feel good during breast play. Vibrators can also offer some delightful stimulation to the nipples. While they are designed for the clitoris, the buzzy sensation can definitely feel amazing. If they wants more intensity, try gently pinching the nipples between your thumb and forefinger. Slowly increase the pressure, and ask them to tell you when it’s too much. Or you can try pulling on the nipples: Cup a breast in your hand and pull on the nipple with your thumb and forefinger, pulling the breast further away from the ribcage. You can also gently twist the nipples—but be careful with this move, as it’s pretty intense. Get your mouth involved

If you want to know what feels good for your book, there’s actually a pretty easy way to find out: Just ask your partner what they like! Lots of people really, really enjoy breast play. According to a UCLA study, women who are unhappy with their breast size are 16 times more likely to hide their breasts during sex. Which is a bummer, because you don't just want to see your partner's breasts—you also want them to feel safe and secure and turned-on. You don’t need to be in a rush to unclothe your partner’s breasts. Breast play can feel pleasurable even through clothing, and it can also be a nice way to tease them. Rub their breasts over their shirt. To evoke a sense of teenage nostalgia, put your hands up their shirt and play with their breasts over the bra. Once you get their shirt off, touch the parts of the breasts that the bra doesn’t cover, gliding your fingertips along the top edge of the bra. Take your time In between massaging and squeezing, trace your areola without touching your nipples. This will help build up anticipation. It might help to compliment your partner's breasts early in foreplay. “Comment on her high responsiveness to stimulation,” says Patti Britton, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist (i.e., "your nipples are so hard right now.") Alternatively, something as simple as "Oh, wow, you have amazing boobs" could be just the confidence boost your mate needs.And if they aren’t sure? Well, it’s time to get curious. Take some time to go on a little journey together. Be willing to make mistakes and learn from them. We’re all just trying to figure out what works for us, you know? Talk dirty. In a study conducted at the University of Vienna, researchers found that large breasts were about 24% less sensitive than small ones. “This is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched,” says Alan Matarasso, M.D., a plastic surgeon in New York City. So if your partner has larger breasts, you may want to spend more time stimulating the outer sides of their breasts, just below the armpits, with your tongue or fingertips. Don’t limit yourself to pinching. Try giving your nipples a slight twist or pull to see what gives you the most pleasure. The nipples have a ton of nerve endings, and studies have shown that the nerve endings in the nipples stimulate the same part of the brain as the clitoris does: the sensory-cortex. The nipples, brain, and genitals actually end up "talking to each other" during nipple play, using the spinal cord as a messenger system. If the stimulation feels good, the brain gets a thumbs-up signal, and sends a corresponding message to the genitals that pleasure is being experienced—which triggers the sexual arousal process. From there, the clitoris becomes engorged, the labia swell, and the vagina becomes lubricated. Isn't the human body amazing? Start slowly by first focusing on your breath. Take long, deep breaths to help you relax and get out of your head and into your body.

Start with your fingers. You can also add other sensations. Oils, lotions, clamps, and nipple vibrators can really ramp up the pleasure. Being able to openly communicate about sexual touch is such a big game changer. Ask them what they’ve liked/not liked in the past. Ask them about fantasies that involve their breasts. Knowing what they’re into is a great starting place.It amazes me how childish he becomes with his hand on my breast. "Thankyou," he says. "That's nice of you," he whispers. No oneelse can hear. He thinks I'm going to move away, but I want to show him that I'm not scaredof anything anymore, so I stand there, and he moves his head closer andcloser, until his lips are on mine, and his tongue is in my mouth. I'vedone this before, with boys, and I want to make sure Dad can tell that Iknow what I'm doing. I move my tongue with his, and wrap my arms aroundhim. I press my breasts against him, and he moans softly . You want to be sure that you’re giving the nipples and breasts equal love. Too much stimulation of one breast can lead to becoming either overly stimulated or even painful. There are so many nerve endings in the nipples that they need to be treated with some TLC. Use a light touch to circle your breasts and areola with large strokes. Then ease into a gentle breast massage. When you’re ready, give your breasts a little squeeze. T. happened to have pretty large breasts, but that wasn't important. What was important was that I was finally feeling those human mounds of flesh that I had stared at and thought about for so long. T. was wearing a basic cotton bra, and I grabbed breast, then both breasts. Then I cupped breast, then cupped breasts, I squeezed fingers under the bra to graze nipple. Having grazed nipple, I became more daring and pinched nipple!