A lot of males will insist this is not really an orgasm and they are as horny after having one as they were before it happened. Mentally this may be true, but physically it isn’t. One of the key contributors to feeling horny for males is the need to ejaculate. Physically and psychologically, ejaculation is the objective of orgasm. Mrs. Lion has given me quite a few ruined orgasms. They do not feel very good. I don’t like the sensation at all. But I can also feel that they do “reset” some of the urgency I was feeling before I ejaculated. This is true of all males. Some may insist it isn’t true, but physiologically it is. Understand though that this isn't 'your' game any more. This is now firmly in their control so gone are the days of persuading them to release whenever you feel the need, you've now given them the green light to push you and decide on their own set of rules for you. This isn't necessarily a one or two week agreement so whilst a trust in a key holder is always massively important, one cannot overstate just how important it is when you are going to give up control to this degree. Like a chastity 'game' there is the potential to set rules first however a popular alternative in this arrangement is the complete relinquishing of control to the keyholder.

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Regardless of his state of waiting, feel free to have him provide you with sexual attention whenever you want. But, don’t let him push you into getting more attention than you desire. A lot of males will try to deal with their frustration by convincing their keyholders to orgasm frequently. Take sex from him when you want, not when he wants. She teases and has some very sexy household wear but more than that at age 70 plus I have come to enjoy the “horny 20 year old feeling”. This was the first chastity story that I ever wrote and it gave me the confidence to write more, which has led to the other stories you can read below. Length of the device and the part of the device that encloses that actual shaft is far less imporant than the size of what’s referred to as the base ring. Taking on length first, get a device that’s too short. Unless you really are dealing with a micro penis don’t go crazy for the first try but in no way do you need to worry about a device where the shaft is an inch or more too short. In fact that’s what you want. If you don’t go with one that’s too short it will be unwieldy, add unnecessary weight and ultimately will be less suited to all-day every-day wear. With the easy part out of the way obviously it will take a bit to move to a device that’s really short, like an inch max, more on that another day.

As keyholder, all this male sex and teasing may make you horny. One of the best benefits of having a caged male is his interest in providing you with lots of orgasms. His wish to do this is driven by two powerful forces: One is his desire to convince you to get him off. In his mind, giving you an orgasm might put you in the mood to give him one. The other reason is more subtle; giving you orgasms is sex and even though he doesn’t get to come, he can still experience the pleasure of giving you orgasms. An ultimate expression of your power is to replace his scheduled orgasm with a ruined one. This is very frustrating to the male and will imprint strongly that you, in fact, own his pleasure. Since ruined orgasms do reset his physical need for orgasm, if not his mental one, they should not be intentionally given before his scheduled release date. I had to accept her reasoning. I did surrender sexual control to her. It’s her choice to decide what that means. The fact that it didn’t conform to my personal chastity fantasy had nothing to do with her power over me. I did manage to convince her that perhaps making me wait would be more in line with what I had in mind when we started. She agreed. If you are inclined to do this training, you can help your male learn with some teaching aids. One good one is the use of condoms. A couple of condoms will reduce his sensitivity and make it easier for him to control himself. Another good one is desensitizing cream. These creams like Oragel contain Novocaine or other anesthetics that actually numb the penis and eliminate any pleasurable sensation from intercourse. If you do use a numbing product on him, wait at least ten minutes after applying it before you let him inside you. It takes at least that long for the anesthetic to take full effect Also, put a condom on him or the cream left on his penis will put your vagina to sleep. There is nothing wrong with training aids to help him learn to use his penis for your pleasure, not his. By the way, if you numb him too much he will lose his erection and be unable to get one again until the anesthetic wears off.

Male Chastity Enforcement. A Brief Guide To Male Chastity

Vignettes, stories, flash fiction of Gynofascist and Matritopian Societies, sadistic female supremacists, and female authoritarian relationships. Erotica for a certain sensibility. Humorless fools unwelcome. This is an excellent post Emma, it’s taken us nearly a year from when I first mentioned chastity to H and bought our first cage (cb6000s) it’s certainly not been easy, but I’d have to say this blog has been our go to source for help and guidance.There are cases when chastity cages may not be feasible as a means to effectively control male ejaculatory activity while the Mistress is away. In those cases, I have developed and employ an alternative method of male chastity enforcement. This method has proven to be most effective at curtailing unauthorized ejaculations. Properly employed, male chastity enforcement is especially effective when the male is away from his Mistress for a period of time. For example, when he must be away on business trips or where the relationship is a session-based liaison. A few years ago Mistress K and I had an overnight stay at the Secret Dungeon in High Wycombe. We had two full play sessions during our stay and this is the story about the first of them. chastity/ˈtʃastɪti/nounthe state or practice of refraining from extramarital, or especially from all, sexual intercourse. She may allow him orgasms. Ruined orgasms, byproducts of male milking. Mistress Owners often milk men before dungeon play sessions. Ruined orgasms make men more vulnerable to physical torment.

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A bit of advice to sub-males and more so female key holders that are curious about long term chastity enforcement. How does one get there? Where do you start? What works? What doesn’t?

A healthy male’s full load’ ejaculation, after having abstained from release for a fixed period up to a full week, can be expected to weigh between 4 to 7 grams depending on age and sexual health. However, if he has released more recently, the specimen he produces for his Fidelity test will weigh considerably less. This can be light in direct correlation to the time since his last release and the number of times he has released. Because of a male’s refractory period, his sex parts require time to replenish his semen after each and every ejaculation – and thus, a light load is an absolute indicator of at least one recent ejaculation. This indicator is good all the way up to his maximum production. Compulsive, or multiple ejaculations will reduce his production dramatically. I do not receive any devices I use of have used for free. I do not get paid for promotion. My experience with male chastity enforcement devices comes completely from the point of a total “newb” and hard learned knowledge through the long process of implementing a chastity enforcement lifestyle within my own relationship and then through helping others do the same on their own terms. One thing that became quite clear is there’s a huge difference between male chastity devices that are appropriate for real enforcement and those that are just sex-toys meant for a bit of fun. Surprise Number One And let's sidestep the idea of 'self enforced' for now, as that strictly speaking isn't enforced or at least to the same degree. We'll keep it on point in discussing enforced chastity with a keyholder. Suggest that after a few weeks you sit down and discuss how things are going. If she expresses concern that her sexual needs won’t be met, you can let her know that your mouth and fingers are always available to her. That’s it. Simple, and easy to follow. This isn’t necessarily the way it’s going to be forever. It’s a starting point. Like anything else that’s worthwhile, it takes time and effort to make it work.

Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or

It took quite a while for this to get this through my head. I had read endless logs and forum posts about all the extras that were supposed to be part of the enforced male chastity lifestyle. As it turned out, all this stuff was noise masking the purity of the male chastity experience. Femdomosophic Fragments – a collection of ancient and early modern texts on female supremacy and superiority. A sensual story sharing a lesbian woman’s hesitant introduction to chastity. Overcoming sexual dysfunction and exploring the cultivation of desire through denial and submission. The Fidelity Test Protocol (FTP) is a ritualized and formal process. It was designed as a compliance tool for male chastity enforcement. It requires only a condom and a small gram-scale, capable of 1/10th gram resolution. Such scales are easily available and quite inexpensive. The Fidelity Test is announced randomly by the Mistress after a required period of ejaculatory abstention. The male is then stimulated and put in the condom and brought to release in a manner that encourages the production of the largest ejaculatory load he can muster. Now for the bad news/good news. I’ve been through just about all of the widely available male chastity devices on my “mission” to resolve this hubby fantasy. There’s only two kinds that will actually work and both of them are going to seem extreme. The first kind will involve a penis piercing of one type or another. I don’t recommend this to start unless it’s already a done deal. I personally am just thinking about possibly getting hubby’s junk pierced a certain way so that I can install a very specific custom made chastity device that looks like it will be easy or zero maintenance. I’ve still not decided and probably won’t for quite a while as the device is expensive and the piercing is specific. Okay so what’s the other kind. Well get ready for it, sit down. The only other male chastity device that actually works — as in enforces chastity and will not come off is one with a stiff steel/metal urethral tube that extends at least inside (preferably behind) the ring when everything is assembled and in place. Yes it sounds and looks extreme. Turns out it’s really not. There’s a couple of days getting used to the feeling on your males partner’s part. He will have to really get used to taking a pee a couple of times but pretty much smooth sailing after that. As an added bonus it actually seems to reduce hubby’s willingness and ability to push against the chastity device when installed. I noticed this the very first day I finally went that direction. This was the answer and the first device I chose lasted almost a year once I got the ring size right. Hubby’s now in a a chastity device that’s shorter (about an inch maybe a little tiny bit more from the tip of it to the ring when assembled, it also has a strait steel urethral tube that’s about 2 inches, maybe a little more.)I’ve been asked how to give a male a ruined orgasm. It’s not difficult. Start by masturbating him until he gets very excited and appears that he is close to coming. Stop. Wait a full ten seconds. If no semen appears, masturbate him again until he seems ready to come. Wait ten seconds. Repeat and add a few strokes. The ten second wait assures that if he does start to orgasm, you won’t accidentally give him a full orgasm. Even if he wasn’t ready to come, starting again only ten seconds later will drive him closer and closer. If at any point he seems to be coming. Stop stimulation immediately and wait. If semen drips out, you are done. It’s that simple. After a period of every day for four hours jump it up to 8 hours or a bit longer. This is a big deal at this point. It should also be every day. The reason this is a big jump is typically this absolutely will cover a work day. A real routine day where the device is on in public during normal work and out and about routines. Remember this building up is EVERY DAY with no breaks. Again the goal is reducing constant that chastity device awareness. After a week or so of this routine it’s not only dulling that awareness but also conditioning the body to not constantly fight the chastity device. During this period there’s a good chance that you’ll need to use a smaller device, smaller ring, smaller. Not sure? Go smaller. Go as small as can possibly be MADE to fit as long as nothing is turning colors. Of course I do tease and stimulate her with my hands and my tongue because I like to leave her all teased up too!