Before jumping into butt play, easing into anal with a finger is an easy way to test the waters. It can be your fing or your partner’s, but gently insert it and give the anus a lil massage to see what all the fuss is about. 50. Try a toy up the butt. Sounds counterintuitive, I know, but orgasm denial can actually be the hottest thing you introduce to your sex life. If you mastered the art of teasing your partner for a week without giving in, try letting yourselves be brought right to the brink of orgasm but not orgasming—for a week. 34. Try a tingling arousal gel on your clit. One position is ideal if you have a bench or a wider rim of your tub — have the penatrating partner keep both legs on the ground (they do need to keep their balance game together here!) while the partner being penetrated takes them from the front, lifting one leg up to wrap around their partner or to rest on the side of the tub. Just add water. Trying out different ~moves~ can also work wonders for your relationship. "One significant challenge to intimacy is the loss of novelty in the bedroom," says Shawntres Parks, PhD, LMFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist in San Diego. Exploration between the sheets amps up emotional intimacy and encourages partners to take risks and grow together. New sex positions will encourage vulnerability with one another in—and outside of—the bedroom. And in the end, you’ll find your relationship injected with an extra dose of trust. Can you keep quiet while your partner gives you oral? Pro tip: It's helpful if you're on a call where "ahhhs" and "mmmms" can count as responses. 107. Have sex in your partner’s childhood home.

Take a tantric trip t ogether. Developing tantric intimacy is totally worth it for a couple that has been together for five years or more, says Dr. Ava. The breathing, swift movements, and muscle control practices allow couples to share a unique, long-lasting pleasure experience, sans the intense sweating and break-the-bed sex moves. According to Dr. Ava, practicing tantric sex and/or going on a tantric retreat with your partner not only makes your sex life more exciting, but can open up a whole new realm of closeness you didn't even know existed. Yeehaw. Reverse cowgirl is fab because your booty will be right in your partner's face (which will be super hot for them) and you're in complete control of the pace and rhythm. 78. Try having sex while sitting in a chair

From head! to! toe! Take your time, tease them, and don’t stop when you get to their junk—like we said, head to toe is the assignment here.

All those warm bubbles and pulsing water jets will put you right in the mood. You could even get in naked straight away. (And again, only if it's private!) 71. Have a photoshootFor Queen Takes King, you’ll use your favorite chair (or any available surface) and have the receiving partner straddle the penetrating partner’s lap. The receiving partner can situate themselves however it feels comfortable, but feet planted on the ground is a nice way to start. From there, they can rotate, bounce, and grind to their heart’s content. These are like special wedges that help you reach the right angles for absolutely ah-mazing sex. See here for a list of the best sex pillows out there. 61. Have sex while eating Now, this makes sense – the poll looked at the most common sexual acts on lists, so the more out-there things wouldn’t be included. Ready to make a sex tape? Be sure to turn off your sharing, get enthusiastic consent from your partner (and decide what you'll do with the tape after), and start brainstorming names for your future reality show. 8. Film yourself masturbating.

Sing your wedding song, or scream from the top of your lungs to Beyoncè. You can make it as fun or as romantic as you’d like. 15. Book an all inclusive resort Wear the remote-controlled sex toy while you're out and about and your partner can control all the vibrations for you from the comfort of their home. 88. Buy a toy you've never used before This steamy moveoffers extra intimacy during the act and can be adapted for anal sex. You and your partner can experiment with plenty of touching and kissing as you set the rhythm together.Imagine the feeling after you and your partner just completed your first marathon. 35. Get arrested One by one, slowly take each item of clothing off your bod. By the time you're totally naked, you'll both be dying to touch each other. 60. Use a pillow designed for sex