Here’s a thought: Stop playing mind games with your partner and start playing sexy board games instead. (Yes, those are a thing and you should definitely incorporate them into your sex life.) If you didn't know this category of entertainment existed—surprise! Not all board games lead to good, wholesome fun. In fact, there's an entire category of old-school-style games designed to get to start naughty conversations, set the mood, and initiate some foreplay with your partner. The more you know, right?! Instructions Booklet– *NOTE: When you cut this section out, don’t separate the cards. Instead, keep them together and then do an accordion fold to create the game directions pamphlet! Love – or should we say lust? – is certainly in the air as we gear up to greet Valentine’s Day head-on. While jewellery, flowers, chocolates and dine-at-home dinners are in no short supply, there is something a little sexier hitting the stores, and we’ve found the best ones to buy.

Boredom. The Magic of the Cut Apple . There are loves of the past and loves of the future. There is only one love today and it must not be neglected . The linked rings’ magic. Daily joys foster honesty and devotion between partners. Every day, you must entice your lover as if it were the first time. #28: King The Scarab’s Mysteries Tenderness, attraction, affection, and teamwork. You can seduce by allowing yourself to be seduced. #3: Drive

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Magnetism. Orgy is being liberated. Eros is a grandiose power that, when abused, can lead to deception, betrayal, or extortion. #16: The Tower If you want to start by taking it slow, Perel recommends finding a game with open-ended questions. This way, each partner can ease their way into the vulnerable, often sexual, mindset. "I love open-ended questions because it allows people to then take them anywhere they want," she says. "No yes and no answers, but stories that it's like the power of the imagination." King . Satisfaction. The Magic of the Spiced Tea. A transparent and harmonious relationship must be fueled by surprises, awe, and constant bantering . Attraction. The Union’s Mystique. A non-obligatory deed intended at attracting gives peace and relieves the soul of spitefulness. It is merely a romantic invitation to love; the rest will happen on its own. #18: FancyThe third card suggests a possible life lesson. To apply this spread, keep in mind that in every circumstance, especially one involving love or sexuality, an individual is torn between his own desires and worries. The Sexy Time game may have a simple name, but it offers plenty of options when it comes to getting up close and personal. Play starts by spinning a wheel whose arrow can land on five different categories – share, show, touch, kiss, and wild card. These correspond to a different card category that will then suggest a sensual activity. The Mysteries of the Thistle Bundle. Despite his reserve, you must endeavor to get to know your partner’s personality. Under the thorns, you’ll find the proper choice: a person who is honest and sincere. #9: Euphoria Support. Magnesium Powder. You must first safeguard yourself and ensure that you have support before calling on a higher power. Your objective must be crystal clear. #6: The Lovers The Lizard’s Mysteries. Sunlight dispels doubts and suspicions. Clarity sheds light on feelings and situations. #22: Amusement

The Power of Fire and Salt. Before you can find the guts to terminate a now-empty relationship, you must draw attention to conflicts and incompatibilities. #32: Masturbation The Moon. The Love Spell. A slow but powerful magical action based on music and the creation of happy imagery. It dispels deception and illusions, restoring domestic tranquility and promoting fertility. #19: The Sun King . Embracing . The Magic of the Bracelet with Nine Knots . Commitment is important. The conquest derives from quiet willpower and mutual determination to offer yourselves to each other . Tiredness. The Magic of the Seven Knots . A love cannot remain pure and precious over time, unless you learn how to give energy to your partner. The Statues in the Fire’s Magic Abandonment is self-surrender. One loses one’s desire to participate in something far greater. #16: ProximityJust as she considered these "game mechanics" when crafting the rules for Where Should We Begin, you should also consider what sort of logistics would work best within you and your partner's dynamic. King . Fear. The Magic of the White Dove . Fear increases the distance, and pursuing your partner will do no good. Happiness is born of a mutual effort to move towards each other. Furthermore, it's important to consider how competitive you want your game to be. When Perel was making her game, she says she considered all sorts of possibilities: "I thought, what card game should it be? Do you win against each other?"

This is a tremendously powerful aspect. Most people call it “passion,” but for those who have been initiated into magic, it signifies a significant strength that can be used and managed to modify and change everything. What is the Tarot of Sexual Magic for you? Queen . Coolness. The Magic of the Bay Leaves . You must fight coolness and convince your partner to be generous. This will bring serenity, safety and sincerity into the couple. The Swallows’ Mysteries Pleasure, in and of itself, is the essence of spring. Enjoying sexuality as a hobby gives you some room to breathe. #23: Caressing The Mysteries of the Bay Leaves. You must overcome your partner’s coolness and persuade him or her to be generous, both emotionally and economically. This will instill calm, safety, and sincerity in the couple. #14: King The Magic of the Scissors. The Magnet and the Coin Routine-induced immobility, habit, and indifference must be combated. #5: GuiltIf you're tired of the same old Netflix and chill routine, spicing things up doesn't always require adding a sex toy to the mix (although adding one never hurts *wink wink*). Incorporating sex games can be an extremely effective way of getting turned on before getting it on, whether you've been together for weeks or years. Some companies make card and board games specifically for foreplay, including questions or tasks that require players to do or confess something naughty. Other sex games aren’t actually sex games, but adult spins on the classic games you already know and love. (Think: Pictionary, Twister, and Jenga with “strip” or naughty elements.) Satisfaction. The Spiced Tea’s Magic. Surprises, awe, and frequent bantering must fuel a transparent and joyful partnership. Pentacles #1: Satisfaction Knave . Biting. The Magic of Bitter Almonds . Enemies of the couple are both inside and outside of it. They should look at each other. Vigilance does not distract from pleasure and pleasure does not distract from vigilance. The Mysterious Power of Sliced Bread. Sharing every piece of food allows you to connect with another person without losing yourself. #17: Kissing The description: suggests a divinatory meaning or inspiration that can be used in a traditional reading.