Transferring power to the woman has an amazing effect in reducing tensions and arguments. Note, I said reduce not eliminate. Expect disagreements and some bumps in the road as in any relationship. At the other extreme, the woman has total control over the man in every aspect of the relationship, including making him dress as a female or remain naked at home. This is closer to our FLR. Notice that I say our, not just mine. More about that in step 1 below.

I was heartbroken, but I was too weak to resist. I couldn’t divorce her because I would be left with nothing, and besides I loved her too much to never be allowed to see her again, something that Linda knew all too well. So, I moved in with Linda and basically became her full time servant.

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Meeting others in the FLR/femdom scene is also fun and opens up new experiences and new friends with similar tastes. So it seems like it is a win-win situation because when the wife is happy, the husband is happy, and by making her happy, he is creating a happy life for both of them.

I appreciate that with FLR my needs are unimportant anyway so as long as she is happy then my feminisation is not on the radar. Little does she know however that if we went down a route such as You and Alice, there would be an even better side of me for her to use ( in my male mode I’m the real pub/sport/lads type – screaming for summer dresses and serving my betters). Your tongue feels nice on my foot, go ahead and use it to massage my feet while also using your hands.”I need to leave manhood behind. She says I have improved but there’s still some way to go and the sooner I do this the better it will be for us both. She’s probably right as it works for us. I therefore obey her, it’s easier really. How my husband looks around the home Equal level: In this level, both partners share equally in all aspects of the relationship. Both partners have an equal say in decision making and both partners share equally in domestic duties. This level is good for couples who want a more egalitarian relationship. In wife led marriage, she is the one who is dominant and behaves that way. She takes care of the finances of both partners, decides on where they both will live or work and all in all, how their daily lives will look like.

I took the IDR labs gender test and it actually said I was undifferentiated/androgynous (31% masculine, 25% feminine). So if my future wife was willing to respect that aspect of me while agreeing to take the lead, I think I’d be happy. This article contains affilaite links. You won’t pay any more than buying direct and the small commission helps me to continue writing about FLR and feminisation. Right now, she is sitting on the couch and I am on my knees sideways of her, close to her couch with my head bowed, forehead touching the ground and my elbows on the floor serving as her human footrest while she watches TV. I have been in this position for over two hours, and I can tell because of how many TV shows she has watched.At its most basic level, the woman is the overall lead of the relationship but that’s about it. We see this type of FLR everyday, no fetish, no formal agreement. It’s just the woman is the stronger of the two and takes certain decisions. They probably wouldn’t even call it an FLR but it is. We’re not with friends today so when I bring her the drinks and curtsey lightly she thanks me and tells me I’m a ‘ good girl‘. Not loud but definitely at normal speaking volume as if it’s a common occurrence, which I guess it is now in our case. I cringe and I scan the room to see if anyone has noticed.