She wanted us to wee on each other simultaneously – like a fountain from Homebase shaped like two dolphins spraying one another through their blowholes. Remember, some infections have window periods, where they can take time to develop before the tests are conclusive, if you let your healthcare provider know your sexual history, they will be able to advise you when to test for your results to be conclusive. In a way, i think it must suck if you work out that you’ve got this really extreme fetish, y’know… just trying to get what you want out of sex without going to a ‘specialist’ dating forum for it. It acts as a barrier to help prevent sexually transmitted infections passing from one person to another. As part of our commitment to that mission, the AskWomen subreddit is curated to promote respectful and on-topic discussions, and not serve as a debate subreddit.

There is nothing inherently sexual about protecting another GirlBro while you have a discreet lil’ pee — it is simply a way to show that you care, and that you’re not concerned with keeping up any appearances. By the time they had finished their much needed relief, there was a massive double puddle on the floor where their pee had soaked into the carpet. Avoid oral sex if either of you has any cuts or sores in the mouth or on the lips, or use a dental dam. UTIs aren’t the only risk to look out for — sharing toys without cleaning them can also increase the risk of Bacterial Vaginosis and yeast infections.Chlamydia and gonorrhoea can be passed between women through shared sex toys, hands, and by rubbing vulvas together. She is trustworthy enough to have your back, chill enough to not mind seeing you half-naked/evacuating your bladder, and fun enough to leave right away to get another drink.

This is caused by a virus, which can spread if you have vaginal, anal or oral sex, or share sex toys.A solo shower can make sure you’re squeaky clean before sex, but why not make the shower part of your play, and get wet together? It’s not just your hands that should be clean — anything that’s going to touch your body (especially your genitals) needs to be freshly washed, including sex toys. My friend Joyce is a good person — great sense of humor, compassion that extends into forever, good storyteller, and a no-bullshit kind of woman.