Fantasies come in many different intensities. Some are so compelling that you’ve just got to act on Read more Bring in the toys The penis should then slip inside, in Darnell's words, "like a hotdog" and start moving in and out at a comfortable speed. Consider asking your bae if he'd like to do the honors of holding your boobs together, as this could bring him even more pleasure, Darnell says. 5. Layer on the lube.

While the phrase boob sex might not be the first thing you think of when contemplating or talking about your girls, it might be worth bringing to the front of your mind. Another way you can learn what your partner likes is to ask them to touch their own breasts. This can be especially hot while you’re in the middle of another activity, like intercourse or fingering. Watch the specific ways your partner touches their own body, and try to get a sense of how much pressure is involved.

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Be aware that breast sensitivity can change throughout the month. There will probably be certain points during the menstrual cycle where they feel much more sensitive than usual. There may even be times when they are too sensitive for any sort of breast play. Don’t be surprised if your partner needs different things from you at different times.

Instead of coming to the bedroom with expectations for perfect boob sex, come into it with some room to giggle or feel weird. Also important to have by your side? Enthusiasm. "If you and your partner are here for it and going at it with excitement for a new experience, it will be fine," Engle says. 4. Get in a comfortable position. You’ve explored anal play for the first time, you’ve played with a few toys, and now you’re ready… Read more All nipples are unique It also feels really good for him—more like a Fleshlight than a hand or vagina, according to Engle. This unique sexual sensation can add even more excitement into the mix.

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Boob sex is all fun and games until your partner is about to finish and, oh crap, your face is very much in the splash zone. Not feeling a facial? Totally get it, girl. Just be sure to voice that and work with your beau to decide on another, more appropriate area for him to unload. It can also be really freaking hot to watch your partner get off on something new—and your body being an integral part of it. Of course, everyone and anyone is welcome to try out some titty time, but the term boob sex in particular generally refers to a male (penis-bearing person) thrusting his member in between a pair of breasts, which, btw, you're squeezing together. Darnell suggests using those phrases because they show that "you are a competent listener and communicator, and you are also looking for guidance." By gathering more information about what you're dealing with, you'll be better off to set boundaries and make agreements going forward, she adds. One of the great things about strap-ons is that anyone can use them. If you have a penis, you can… Read more Be sensitive to timing

If they wants more intensity, try gently pinching the nipples between your thumb and forefinger. Slowly increase the pressure, and ask them to tell you when it’s too much. Or you can try pulling on the nipples: Cup a breast in your hand and pull on the nipple with your thumb and forefinger, pulling the breast further away from the ribcage. You can also gently twist the nipples—but be careful with this move, as it’s pretty intense. Get your mouth involved Odds are, your bae will be into it. But what if you're not? Rather than immediately shutting your partner down with a blatant N-O, try to keep an open mind and say something along the lines of, "Thanks for asking. Can you tell me more about what you mean?" or "I haven't tried it, but I might be willing to give it a go. What are some of the most comfortable positions for me that you have in mind?"If you're not feeling the whole starfish situation, consider switching things up by sitting in a chair or squatting in front of your partner. The key, again, is to be comfy—you could be at this for quite some time (read: until your partner finishes or you decide to move to the next act). Even once you’ve gotten your partner’s clothes off, you can still take your time teasing them. Spend some time tracing their collarbone with your finger, then kissing along it. Touch and kiss along the sides of the breasts, without going straight for the nipple. Pay attention to the underboob and sideboob We’re all unique when it comes to how we like our bodies to be touched, but there are few sexual acts more universally despised than the breast honk. I have never met anyone who enjoyed having their breasts squeezed this way (especially not as sexual initiation). Please don’t treat your partner’s breasts like old-fashioned horns. For women, boob sex can be just as sexy and hot...that is, however, if being in a more submissive position excites you. "It puts you in that 'fantasy partner' porno position [where] you're kind of in this hot submissive, 'sex toy' role and that can be a turn-on," Engle explains.