First things first....this is my first post....I am not trolling for anything. This is an honest account. Like it or don't, it is okay with me. If wax play is a little ambitious for you, but you want some added heat, consider using a massage candle. Typically, these candles are oil-based so that the temperature is lower than hot wax. You can use the oil to give your blindfolded partner a massage. 6. Or blindfold them and play with something cold. Depending on the style—if it's like Velcro or if it's connected all the way around–[blindfolds] can also double as cuffs for your wrists or your ankles,” Villero says, adding that it’s a fun way to introduce an element of restraint if everyone involved is okay with that. “Then you can switch it up and put it on your eyes.” 8. Use the blindfold as a “feather” on your partner’s body. If you and your partner aren’t sure how to get started with this kind of play, Villero suggests saying, “Don't open your eyes during this little piece,” then introducing a blindfold from there. Once you’re on board with that, read on for a few more ways to step up your blindfold game below. 1. Blindfold your partner in a different room. Take it out of the bedroom,” Villero says. Listen, blindfolded sex can be exciting in your usual sexual surroundings. But if you or your partner is blindfolded somewhere unexpected (or blindfolded and carefully led into a different room), it can up the ante, Villero explains. “It can create a totally different sense of excitement because now you're like, ‘Oh, I don't know where I'm going to sit. I don't know where I'm going to stand.’” Doing this involves a fair amount of communication and trust, so make sure you’ve scouted the area beforehand so no one gets hurt. 2. Feed your blindfolded partner.