If you struggle to maintain the insubstantial body around other people, or if it’s not effective, don’t worry. Teen Vogue may earn a portion of sales from products that are purchased through our site as part of our Affiliate Partnerships with retailers. Using glamor is no different from pretending that you are more confident than you are or putting on makeup to make yourself feel more attractive. May they feel that I am funny, interesting, and enjoyable and make them desire my company again in the future.

Glamour Magic (at least the way I practice) is NOT about altering your appearance to better appeal to others OR conform to beauty/fashion norms. But within those codes also lies a potential for relief, for our own construction, for play, for casting our own little spells.Although in today’s society the wearing of red lipstick may be seen as sexy, in ancient times it was viewed as a form of protection. As opposed to utilizing glamor magic to live in deeper relationship to our dreams and to connect more creatively with people! There are liabilities of glamour magic which are ways we create smoke and mirrors around ourselves as to not actually be seen.

However, glamouring stops short at total transformation of this kind and is really about embodying beauty in a particular form. Deb re-captures the idea of the Witch as Enchantress and lays out the work, both magical and mundane, needed to fascinate and charm anyone—even yourself. See our latest video together on YouTube where we discuss how we each work with soul (through astrology and through embodiment, and how we intertwined it via our friendship over the years) and about how we currently understand peak experience and the soul. You see me in my polka-dotted ‘40s-style dress, small hat, and lipstick, and you may think I look glamorous—which is the goal.This is great on first dates, but it’s also useful when making new friends, when networking, when meeting the in-laws, and for job interviews. I usually recommend these items for energetic cleansings and the general removal of germs that you may have picked up during the day. Personalized advertising may be considered a “sale” or “sharing” of information under California and other state privacy laws, and you may have a right to opt out.

The days of the week carry just as much energy and symbolism as the months of the year or the phases of the moon, and that can be helpful for witches who like to time their spells with the vibe of the moment! Time spent building your confidence, tending your beauty, and harnessing your own strength is invaluable and necessary for a wise witch. She's been there before, not only did she leave a cookie trail, but she knows enough to stop it being devoured by the wild animals of the forest. It won't cause major physical changes such as different eye color or a new nose but it will bring out one's inner beauty and natural allure. I have been inventing visualizations for myself to nourish my process or stretch myself into my prayers.You can also do the ritual during a waxing moon (the period leading up to a full moon) if you miss the new moon. It will not necessarily create sexual desire in other people, it simply makes people want to be near you and feel drawn toward you. The one downside of this spell is that it takes a bit of practice and you need to be feeding the spell the entire time you want to be invisible. The hair was especially important and was sometimes dyed, as red hair was highly regarded as a sign of strength, divinity, and nobility. Usually, we use them in situations where we want a little boost to help things go our way or to help us feel more comfortable going into a situation.

If you commit to the right intention and use glamour magic to manifest your personal goals it can help you achieve maximum success in all areas of your life.The timeless, eternally beautiful sorceress slowly removes her dramatic ruby choker, placing it with intention upon a table.