We-Vibe’s Moxie vibrator is another popular toy among sex educators. Moxie is a rechargeable panty vibe that slips into any pair of underwear you own, “so there’s no need to worry about a panty that will cramp your style,” says Sam, the cofounder of NYC sex shop Shag. As its name suggests, bullet vibrators are handheld vibrators typically shaped like bullets (and often roughly the same size). Similar to the egg vibrator, bullet vibrators offer pinpointed external stimulation to your erogenous zones, and some models are designed to stimulate the G-spot as well. “The small size of bullet vibrators allows you to focus on stimulating a specific point, from the glans of the clitoris to the perineum to the nipples,” says Lovehoney certified sex educator Javay Frye-Nekrasova, MEd (also known as The Millennial Sexpert). Sex toys are always welcome additions in the bedroom, but sometimes they’re not the easiest to control when you're in the moment. Introducing: the best remote control vibrators, which exist to make solo or partner play a little bit easier and a lot more fun. No more fumbling with buttons or flipping through vibration patterns and speeds without being able to see what you’re doing (when you’re really just trying to focus and stay in the mood). And with February around the corner, remote control vibes make an excellent sexy gift for Valentine’s Day. What to look for in remote control sex toys? verifyErrors }}{{ message }}{{ /verifyErrors }}{{

Remote control vibrators have been on the market for a long time, but the technology just keeps getting better. These days, many toys are Bluetooth-enabled with Wi-Fi connectivity, and can be controlled remotely through an app on your phone—no matter what time zone and location. This feature makes remote control vibes a game changer for long-distance relationships. Other types of remote control vibes can be used within a short range of a separate wireless remote. Some can even be worn in your underwear, which can add an element of intrigue to foreplay, sex with your partner in the next room (or abroad), or for discreet public play. Even for people living their best single life and just looking to ramp up their solo sex lives, remote control sex toys can make masturbation easier. Want to change the vibration speed? All you need is a simple tap on your phone screen, smartwatch, or connected remote to dial up the intensity. These vibrators’ small size is actually their biggest benefit, as they are some of the most discreet sex toys—and travel-friendly too, as they’re easy to slip into a clutch, purse, or even be worn as jewelry (really!). You can always keep one close to you when on the go, just in case the mood strikes when you least expect it, and their unassuming shape and lower price point make them excellent vibrators for beginners. The best bullet vibrators are so subtle you could leave them on a table and none would be the wiser. There are plenty of reasons to add one to your sex-toy collection (or make it your main vibe; you do you). What is a bullet vibrator? Despite their petiteness, bullet vibrators offer powerful pleasure. “Because the surface area is small, especially at the tip, these toys will seem pretty intense to many users when they touch their clitoris or other sensitive bits,” Queen says. She recommends wrapping a bullet in a soft fabric to help spread the sensation out even further.A word to the wise from Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen: Bullet vibrators are not safe for anal play unless they have a flared base that keeps them from getting lodged inside the body. What are the benefits of a bullet vibrator? For people with vulvas, it’s designed to massage your clitoris while you’re out and about—which can be a delight for both the body and mind, Celeste Hirschman, MA, cofounder of the Somatica Institute of Sex and Relationship Coaching, tells SELF. She gave the Moxie+ (the latest version of the Moxie) a try while out with her boyfriend: “It was fun psychologically because I knew he was getting turned on surprising me with some buzz throughout the day…. It was also great physiologically because it had the right level of stimulation for my body.”

This can feel amazing for anyone who enjoys pinpointed sensations during clitoral stimulation. To determine this, sex educator and sex toy reviewer Amy Norton previously suggested asking yourself: “When you receive oral sex, what tends to feel better for you: a wide, flat tongue pressed against your whole vulva or the tip of a tongue tracing your clitoris or labia? This distinction can inform whether you’ll go for a big, all-encompassing vibrator, like a wand, or something slimmer, like a bullet.” What is the best bullet vibrator?